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hello,

its been a year since i got married, and now i m planning to go to india alone and my hubby would be in US, i m planning to stay in india for 2 months, the problem is his elder brother is too bossy my hubby gives him money for everything, his brother is married and has 2 kids, he tells me what i should do , and since earlier i never knew i used to listen , now i get very angry at the very thought of him and scared to visit india again he will start bossing over me, and my in-laws are also staying along with him.... plz suggest me how shall i divide my time, and make him shut his damn mouth..... Dharma replied. Please do just what you want and youthink is right. Don't listen to anything what anyone has to say. As they say listen from one ear an dtake it out from the other. Over the years they will earn to respect your wishes. If you indulge now, they will expect life long. stay 15 days with inlaws and 1 month15 days with your parents. Afterall if your hubby was visiting his parents he would probably do that or visit even less at your parents'.