Hi, We had a baby boy 11 months ago. He was born premature at 31 weeks.Due to many complications associated with premature babies, he could not survive for more than 10 days. Though the doctors say that we can now plan for another baby, I am so scared that what happened with us before can happen again! Is there anyone out there who has been a similar situation?
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Hi, We had a baby boy 11 months ago. He was born premature at 31 weeks.Due to many complications associated with premature babies, he could not survive for more than 10 days. Though the doctors say that we can now plan for another baby, I am so scared that what happened with us before can happen again! Is there anyone out there who has been a similar situation?
nk replied. dear cde,
though with god's grace, i've not gone through such a traumatic experience, i can understand ur pain. also, i'm not even a doc, but even then i'm trying to help u out..... if u find all this to be a rubbish, pl ignore it
Firstly, in no case u have to feel so dejected. ur experience could have been a result of some injury, or some other complications during pregnancy. Or, may be that was destined to happen. i suggest that both of u shd see ur gyn/obs soon, and before trying for conception take her advise (whether the mother is physically fit to conceive -- after the prev pregnancy). don't hide anything from her.
Lastly, if u believe in God, pray to Him. also, u buy \";sant sri aasaa ram ji's\"; book on ayurveda (Aarogya Nidhi), wherein u can find so many home remedies to be taken before, and during pregnancy. most importantly, be cheerful during the whole period and be EXTRA CAREFUL (ask ur doc, how)
so hurry!!! see ur gyn/obs, concieve, and give us the good news.....
good luck.
nk replied. dear cde,
though with god's grace, i've not gone through such a traumatic experience, i can understand ur pain. also, i'm not even a doc, but even then i'm trying to help u out..... if u find all this to be a rubbish, pl ignore it
Firstly, in no case u have to feel so dejected. ur experience could have been a result of some injury, or some other complications during pregnancy. Or, may be that was destined to happen. i suggest that both of u shd see ur gyn/obs soon, and before trying for conception take her advise (whether the mother is physically fit to conceive -- after the prev pregnancy). don't hide anything from her.
Lastly, if u believe in God, pray to Him. also, u buy \";sant sri aasaa ram ji's\"; book on ayurveda (Aarogya Nidhi), wherein u can find so many home remedies to be taken before, and during pregnancy. most importantly, be cheerful during the whole period and be EXTRA CAREFUL (ask ur doc, how)
so hurry!!! see ur gyn/obs, concieve, and give us the good news.....
good luck.
2002-03-08
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Name: nk Subject: don't be so apprehensive....
dear cde,
though with god's grace, i've not gone through such a traumatic experience, i can understand ur pain. also, i'm not even a doc, but even then i'm trying to help u out..... if u find all this to be a rubbish, pl ignore it
Firstly, in no case u have to feel so dejected. ur experience could have been a result of some injury, or some other complications during pregnancy. Or, may be that was destined to happen. i suggest that both of u shd see ur gyn/obs soon, and before trying for conception take her advise (whether the mother is physically fit to conceive -- after the prev pregnancy). don't hide anything from her.
Lastly, if u believe in God, pray to Him. also, u buy \";sant sri aasaa ram ji's\"; book on ayurveda (Aarogya Nidhi), wherein u can find so many home remedies to be taken before, and during pregnancy. most importantly, be cheerful during the whole period and be EXTRA CAREFUL (ask ur doc, how)
so hurry!!! see ur gyn/obs, concieve, and give us the good news.....
good luck.
2002-03-08
#2
Name: nk Subject: don't be so apprehensive....
dear cde,
though with god's grace, i've not gone through such a traumatic experience, i can understand ur pain. also, i'm not even a doc, but even then i'm trying to help u out..... if u find all this to be a rubbish, pl ignore it
Firstly, in no case u have to feel so dejected. ur experience could have been a result of some injury, or some other complications during pregnancy. Or, may be that was destined to happen. i suggest that both of u shd see ur gyn/obs soon, and before trying for conception take her advise (whether the mother is physically fit to conceive -- after the prev pregnancy). don't hide anything from her.
Lastly, if u believe in God, pray to Him. also, u buy \";sant sri aasaa ram ji's\"; book on ayurveda (Aarogya Nidhi), wherein u can find so many home remedies to be taken before, and during pregnancy. most importantly, be cheerful during the whole period and be EXTRA CAREFUL (ask ur doc, how)
so hurry!!! see ur gyn/obs, concieve, and give us the good news.....
good luck.
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