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2008-01-05
Name: Neelima



Hi all,
Few days back i got my periods. as such my days were over by 6-7 days only. I thought it may be natural bleeding. later it didn' t stop after even 20 days. than i called my doc.She asked me to take pregnancy test. I told her that my periods have come on almost on time. than to she asked me to check. when i checked, it came positive. I was shocked. immediately she asked for the scan. when i went for scan , we found that i had one more mis carriage. i felt bad that this time i didn' t even come to know about it. She said as still some particals are inside , so she gave some medicine for cleaning it up.
My question is why one gets multiple mis carriage as this was my third miscarriage and i am married from last 7 years and desperately waiting to get pregnant and have baby. sometime i feel like adopting a child......
I am really depresed. can anyone suggest me any thing, so that i can have baby soon.
I feel i will never have baby, otherwise why is this happening?
Thanks,
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2016-08-20
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Anonymous Name: NN
Subject:  RE:3rd miscarriage



There can be many reasons behind multiple miscarriages. Your uterus might be weak and incapable of holding on to the child or then might be some other hormonal problem. You should ask the doctor about it she will tell you in detail.
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2015-12-15
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Anonymous Name: Ray
Subject:  Baba ramdev medicine to prevent miscarriage



Can anyone tell me name of baba ramdev medicine to prevent miscarriage
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2008-01-15
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Anonymous Name: Divya
Subject:  Consult with experts



Sorry for ur heartbeaking news.Before i hv same mmc.This time I took heavy doze of meditions and complete bedrest and get relief frm that stage when i knew abt my mic. (three times only 9 weeks)
You need to consult with a good and experienced Dr. Be positive and never disappointing. I know its very tough time but u should keep ur mind strong and take care of ur health.(Man ke haare haar har hai or man ke jeete jeet.)
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2008-01-09
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
Subject:  talk with your doc



Hi Neelima,

Have you spoken with your doctor about the reasons for your miscarriage? Is there the possibility that there is an underlying medical condition that has caused this and if so is there treatment that will reduce your chances of another loss. Given that you have been though three miscarriages it is important that your doctor considered investigating the cause. If your doctor chooses not to than I strongly urge you to get a referal to a fertility specialist and consult with them about this problem.

I can imagine how heartbreaking this must be for you but there is still a lot of hope for you. Sometimes when we´ re trying to conceive it can become a dominating factor in our lives. Sex is no longer about love but baby making and that sort of stress can put preasure on the body and mind. So please keep things in context and making love not babies... They will come when they´ re ready. As for adoption, well, a lot of people will tell you that adoption is a last resort but I think it is a wonderful opportunity for yourself and a needy child if your in the position to do so.

I think for the most part adoption isn´ t something many people consider despite the phrase being thrown around a lot... If you are thinking of adoption than I think you´ d be doing a wonderful service to yourself and to a child who has no family. In the mean time I think you should explore the reasons behind your losses. Three miscarriages is not normal. It might be that you have been most unlucky but there is a good chance that there is another reason for this and that is what you need to discover. All the best Neelima!
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2008-01-05
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Anonymous Name: mandeep
Subject:  hiya



hiya neelima
sorry about your loss love. as i have myself suffered mmc and ecotopic both at the same time in 20 days time so i know what u might to going through. mine was also sudden as i never realise that i was pregnant with twins. Neelima they say mmc occure when something is not right with the future baby and that' s the nature' s way to sort out things it self. ask to your dr. weather your utreas linning is thick enough to carry the full term pregnancy if not then is it possible that she can give u some sort of medicine which u can start taking when ever u try agian.I was told by my nurse to slow down in my life as i as too busy running my busines n hardly had time even to breath , i was always on the run but then in Dec 2005 i suddenly change my mind n said enough now n slow down reduse my business to half gave myself some time ,I was over weight i lost about 15 kg of my wieght also by that time my mum send me baba ramdev ayurvedic medi. also n it did work for me i started taking it in jan 2006 n in april i was preg. n carry baby full term.I had my baby after 8 years of trying. so never never give up hope, always think positive. Things will work out for u. take things easy way, don' t get depressed as this will not help in any way love. Go to dr. find the root of multiple mmc so next time when u get preg.u r ready to carry the baby full term.lots n lots of baby dust.
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2008-01-06
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Anonymous Name: Neelima
Subject:  Hi Mandeep



Hi mandeep , Thanks yaar,
u r really supportive, probably more than anyone as most of them r depressed by the result than supporting me as if i have made a mistake by getting periods.
Mandeep can u please tell me the name of the medicine u took from Baba Ramdev.
I will also consider the same for future trying.
I will really be grateful to you.

Thanks again
Neelima
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