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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Hi Sudha
2007-11-15
Name: rekha



Hi Sudha,
Thanks for the reply.Nice to know you & was happy to read your reply….. quite comforting.I have read all your posts and I know you are the mother of a beautiful little angel Rishona. I’m sure she misses you and will be back in your arms soon. I’ll pray for you & your little angel !

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2007-11-15
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Anonymous Name: rekha
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Yes, i did have a couple of posts in June board. I was to see my little baby on 21stJune, sharing her b' day with her father (alas !!).

Sudha, i was a victim of Blighted Ovum. I' m not too sure but i was told that this does not have a defined reason.Vaguely,it is said that it could be due to the chromosomal defects or genetic or blah blah which are definitely NOT under my control.I was told that it happens to 1 in 5 cases. I' m just keeping my fingers crossed for the next one.

You are right, given a choice i would have,in a hurry, started on TTC right away...

Coming to my bro' s weddiing...i don' t have a choice but to attend(!!)...i' m the only sis he has.I' ll take your words and take it up as a holiday. It might turn ot to be not as difficult as expected. Fortunately, i have my husband as a big pillar to bank on.

Hope i have the strength to sail thru' this with a smiling face.

Chalo, will catch you later....(retiring for the day).

Thanks dear...keep smiling.
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2007-11-15
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Anonymous Name: sudha
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dont rush ...i would again say
and also dont pressurize ur self to be smiling .. people know its not easy to smile ...dont force be urself and yes this break is deserved...take it and u will absolutly wonderful
take care
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2007-11-15
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Anonymous Name: sudha
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good u have prioratise things....
dont say u were a victim of blighted ovum ... miscarriages in the early phase is not in anybodys hand ...and blighted ovum as far as i know is due genetic reasons a friend of mine had it and next yr she went ahead and had a normal preg ( a boy who is now 3 mnths old...)
get urself thoroughly tested for pcos,or any other virus...
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