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2007-11-13

Name: rekha Dear friends,

I' m new to this section. Just recovering from D&C.I was 7wks when i got to know that the fetal pole( my little one ) was not visible.( This was my first one !.)
Had to wait for a couple of days and had to go thru the most disappointing phase.

Doc has advised to TTC only after a month.Unfortunately, i have to go home in feb for my brother' s wedding and cant try before that.This wait seems to be never ending.

Losing hopes. All the more b' coz i' m already 29 and hv bn married for almost 4yrs now. I don' t know if i' ll ever get to see my little one.

Anyways good luck to all of you!

Tk care.

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2008-01-09

Name: K.Radha
Subject:

patience

Hi Rekha,

I have been absent from the forums for a while so you' ll have to excuse my late reply. I am sorry to have read of your loss and I sincerely hope that it will be your last. I know it is very difficult to wait patiently when every part of your soul is begging to try again but this time constriction is not just for your emotional sake, it is so that your body can prepare itself for another pregnancy. Falling too soon after a loss or otherwise can be a stress to the body and its important to give your baby all the necessary nutrients. Rekha, you are only 29 and have many fertile years ahead of you. So many of us here have played the waiting game like you are doing now so we all do sympathise with you. I know it seems a long wait but truly and month or two of waiting is a small price to pay, try to keep your goal in sight without concentrating on the time it will take to get there... I sincerely wish you all the best when you start trying again.

2007-11-13

Name: sudha
Subject:

hi rekha

i was reading all ur queries in the may/june due board ..dont loose hope
even i m an angel mum to Rishona whose b day i celbrated this nov ...im 30 now
dont rush into things i would say grieve out fully ...why im saying this .. after a loss our immidiate though process is we have to have a child who will replace the lost one ...and in the process the new baby we tend to treat a replacement absolutly unknowingly ..
also prioratise if trying a baby is more imp or brothers marriage is more imp ....
i posponed our trying time because i wanted the vacation so i didnt try even after 6mnths...
its ur life rekha so prioratise .. abrothers wedding is a welcome break ..so try after that no harm ....
get urself fully checked like why this happened so that it doesnt repeat
we learn from our losses
come out of the grief and then only try
dont rush
blessings and love
sudha

2007-11-15

Name: rekha
Subject:

THANKS !

Hi Sudha,

Thanks for the reply...I have been trying to post a reply but for some reason the site says that the reply is under ´ scrutinisation´ grrrhhh.

Will wait for another day try again.

Thanks once again!

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