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When your hubby goes on tour and enjoys watching a movies without you or goes sightseeing without you, how do u feel about it and why?? uma ramesh replied. It is very ironical and true...i have a small baby and often remain at home...if i go out i carry her but my husband goes out freely,has an evening out with his friends..if i took off like that i wud have to face some 100 queries...where ...when are u back and so on..guess even if women are working and shouldering more responsibilities things never change for some women uma ramesh replied. It is very ironical and true...i have a small baby and often remain at home...if i go out i carry her but my husband goes out freely,has an evening out with his friends..if i took off like that i wud have to face some 100 queries...where ...when are u back and so on..guess even if women are working and shouldering more responsibilities things never change for some women friend replied. Heres what I think matters most in situations like yours,\";how do you spend your time when you are together?\";
Do you feel loved, have fun? If you don't then thats the real issue. Its what you don't do when u are together , than what you do when you are not that counts.
If he doesn't satisfy your emotional, physical, psychological needs when he is around you then your worries are justified. If he does provide you with the things above then you just need to get over it & stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Theres no hard a fast rule that a couple can only have fun when they're together. As long as boundaries are not crossed, its perfectly fine.
Hope this helps suman replied. i am a housewife living here in the us since less than a year. my husband is basically a nice person but bad at communication. he can communicate with anyone else but me specially about us other wise we can talk about other things. i am too sensitive and emotional. sice the past month i have started feeling so lonely i get depressed whenever i am alone. i dont know what to do.i also want to make friends. Archie replied. Yes you don't need to wonder as you are. It's fair to have enjoyed your husband kind of things you explained by himself. Similarly you could do your activities without involving him.

As long as you both are loyal to relation and doing good for relation, what should prevent you enjoying life.

Archie vs replied. Every person has the right to enjoy himself as long as he is not cheating on his family. My husband's job has taken him to dozens of different countries around the globe while I have accompanied him on only 3. I am happy for him and enjoy watching the videos and photos of the trip.