Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

dear all - after my misscarriage(s) i left out only with ivf as an option to become a mother. even though we are in a position to afford it - my husband is completely reluctant to go for it. he is really concerned about my health and he wants to adopt a child. but i dont know - i am in a dilema that if ivf is there why shouldn´ t we try it? still i am not 100 ready to go for adoption.
pls anybody help me what should i do? how it will be the feeling after adoption? can we accept them completely as our children. i know we can see god in child´ s face. but i dont know i am a bit confused. anyone pls. advise me.
M replied. If you are in India, try ayurvedic treatment. Most of the times for unexplained problems in alopathy have solutions in ayurveda nimmy replied. hi sheirn,
i am an adopted mother and thats the best thing that has happened in my life. the basic rule is change your mindset. what happens in this world is not fully your fault. accept what comes in life. maybe some lil darling is waiting for your cuddles and love. when u hav so much luv to give and only this one life, go forward and do this good thing. i keep forgetting that my daughter is adopted. she is given to me directly from GOD which is a rare gift. you wait for so many years of suffering and anxiety and finally GOD show you the way. now i don´ t want a child of my own, if i am have the chance. i can´ t think of dividing my love. my daughter is my life. go ahead, sheirn, you´ ll know the difference later on. even if you have a second child later on, it will be your second one.
good luck and GOD bless you.