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Hi Archie,

I read your birth story in july board.Felt very bad for you.I pray god for you to recover soon.Your doctor do not have any patience it seems.Bcoz of him/her you gone thro' a C-sec.

Some how i feel like Indian doctors in U.S don't treat you well.This is my personal opinion.I cld be wrong also.I hope you remember me.(i used to go to Indian doctor only).When i was pregnant i didn't feel comfortable with my gynec.She was not willing to respond to My questions properly.She was always used to
be in a big hurry.When ever i called her she was answering me like Sathapthi express...:-)

I got so frustrated.We were abt to change the doctor.But unfortunately it ended up in to
miscarriage.Just i was wondering is your doctor also Indian???I went to 2 hospital one is gynec and other one is General practioner.Really i had a very bad experience with both of them.
At last i decided to not to visit Indian doctors anymore.One of my friend also felt the same way.
What ever i felt i am writing here.I cld be wrong also.

Whatever it is you have Advait in your lap now.When you see him you will not remember all your pains.Good to see that you cld take all your labour pains.How r u managing now without anybody's help?I guess still your MIL didn't get visa .Hope she will get it soon.Then you can relax.Nothing much.Take care
bye
suba Archie replied. Dear Suba,
Thanks for confronting words.
No my Dr. is not Indian. She is Romanian and till I went in labor or developed labor sign she was one good Dr. who got praise from me. I do know that she did not wanted me to induce on weekend as she wanted to have that slot free. I was post-date. May be the fact I developed signs on July 4th and went in labor on the same day has something to do. I did not appreciate her ignorance especially when I developed labor signs. Otherwise she is one excellent Dr. and always open for Discussion. May be she had something else going on and that boiled on my side.
May be I was destined to have C-section. I dont' mind as I am proud mother to have Advait in my arms, smiling and keeping me occupied.

Apart from husband who has been a great soul throughout the term and before, there is no help.

My MIL feel sorry that she is not able to here when I need assistance. She is sending some stuff with a friend of my husband over this weekend. She is professional with postpartum stuff and that's what bothers her a lot that she can not offer her helping hand to me. She cry saying I been help to every relatives, SIL and my Co-sister but unfortunately not to me. I feel sorry for her too but what can we do, life is never fair.

Archie