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hi friends this is sandhya from andhra , when I am studying degree 2nd year I got married I.e 10-05-2007 , and life went happily and given birth to my child also . but on 13-03-2011 for my sadness my husband died in accident , my mother in law side relatives arranged a ritual to make me widow , in my husband caste , widow must shave hair on that day , they arranged for shaving my head but my parents stopped for shaving my head, except headshave everything done to me on that day , after 3 years with my parents force i got married to a person but due to some personal reasons we both breakup in 1 month only. my relatives and are saying that because u didn't shave ur head on ur husband died ritual because of that all this happening all they are saying like that , now I got 3rd marriage proposal this also going side track so please suggest me frnds what should I do ?? if I shave my head everything will be clear na , if headshave is solution where I have to shave head . pls give ur valuable suggestions pls No Name replied. Hi Sandhya Rani,
I would suggest you to go for head shave there would be nothing wrong and it would be better you do it in temple only god would be with you in all your troubles and sorts out with solution for you. Not real replied. Hi Sandhya rani,
You take the decision what ever your sole says to you. Because you are the bearer of the problem.You need to lead life until your death comes no one will support us only our beloved ones will be with us.I wish you take good decision only. None replied. Hi Sandhya Rani,
How people ares till following all such customs and traditions in this century.And do you believe all such things also.Can you post an reply what have you done and which decision you have taken for your life. Nidhi replied. Hello Sandhya Rani,
You take good decision which would help you in future.And even your kids future is also important for us.So what have you done because you have posted this message past an year ago.Can you reply for this post. Nidhi replied. Hello Sandhya,
Even people still following such rituals in this century.How could they do for woman no one is following all such customs.And you just to your coming husband about you completely and if he agrees only you do marriage with him. Nikki replied. Hello Sandhya,
I suggest you not to do marriage again because it is not good to you only and even for your kids.You are not going to do head shave also and in this century also people are still following all such beliefs it was so disgusting. Tripura replied. Hi Sandhya,
how could you believe all such things.Breaking the relation between two people means their is no mutual understanding between them.You should think all that stuff.You just decide what you want in your life and think about the future of your kids. chinmayee replied. dear sandhya,
in which century u r living in? there is nothing like you didn't shave your head so u r not going to live happyly in ur married life. think that if if ur first husband was alove he would have liked to see u bald? no na, then y u r thinking in that way. and about ur marriage there must be some problems that u r not taking precautions while choosing husband because of pressure of ur family to get married as early as possible and u r taking decisions very quickly. don't worry think wisely. Radha replied. Dear Sandhya
It is sad to hear your plight. A remarriage for a widow with a child often becomes hit and miss. Finally you may end up with neither a stable and happy marriage nor a peaceful life. But since you are having a child, I strongly suggest that you concentrate on raising him/her up well rather than burdening him/her with another person as step-father. Of course you will miss many good things that come along with a marriage. But better live with courage and conviction rather than doubt and fear.
Be assured that shaving your head by itself will not solve all your problems. Shaving one's head is certainly not a trade. But if you think that you will feel good and contented, happily get your head shaved in Tirupati or some other pilgrim centre. It is a very refreshing experience. krishna replied. Hi sandhya garu,
mee fb ac id chapandi,or meju objection lakunty oka test mail naku send chayandi naa id indulo vundi kada krishna replied. Hi Sandhya Garu,
How are you, It's very sad to hear about your problem and every one telling you to do hs then every thinkg will be ok, that is very painful to you once you discusses with your parents and take one decision.