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ladies last week one incident really ashamed me i am a 9 yr old mother and from gud family living in mumbai my mil is v narrow minded lady and often taunt me may b she think i tease other guy with my looks once from my balcony my underwear fall down behind our dhobi kisok and i feel v shy abt thinking how i got it back in afternoon when nobody was their i approch him and say frankly and finally got my underwear i feel v shy and control my emotions i noticed this boy start noticing me once i not knw by mistake my one pink lngrie with flower and normal brown underwear go with cloths when my mil check cloths she got that ujwala replied. hello anupama,
keep in mind that you are not doing anything wrong, so there is no need to feel shy in front of other family members, give a trust to her that you are not doing this things purposely. sheetal replied. hello anupama,
i read your post, you should try to forget whatever happened with you, its very obivous thing you feel uncomfortable and feel shame in front of your mother in law, this is not big issue. Tia replied. Hi Anupama, now nothing can be done as the incident is already over. However be safe from now onwards and take care of your things properly. Even you know that our MIL's will not like such things. Gauri replied. Hi Anupama, this happens many times so you dont have to be ashamed. Many a times even my inner fall down from the balcony due to air or some or the other accident which take place. NN replied. See it was not your fault and you can not help it if your mother in law has a different thinking and you can not just close everything and sit at home. You can just try to explain her but if she does not understand then leave it. Hardika replied. See the clothes falling from the balcony on someone was not your fault as you did not do it on purpose so don't think about it too much and forget it. Don't let what your mother in law's thinking disturb your peace. Nandita replied. I don't think it is a very big deal and you should not think about it much as it is absolutely normal and was not your fault. Let your mother in law think what she wants to think and you don't feel ashamed about it. harry replied. hiii anupama, its so normal so dont take it very huge issue, so forget it, but take care of your personal things, ok prity replied. hi anupama i read your story but i think you should take precautions from next time you have to take care about that, means it will not happen again because you see that boy noticed you now, so its not good for you as you said you are from good family so take care of this things. siddhi replied. hi anukpama just try to forgot what happened, its obious you feel shame in front of your mother in law,this is not big issue, so behave normal. namrata replied. hi anupama luthra, its a not very serious incident just try to forgot it, and dont think much about that, as you say you are broad minded think so, so past is past think about present and future. Kittu replied. Hello Anupama,
It had happened already you need not worried for that just leave that and you will be free of tension also i wish you would forget about that and try to be free with your mother in law so that it would be better on you. Nimmy replied. Hello Anupama Luthra,
It is very small incident that had taken place for you.So you need to just forget the problem you had faced.When ever you forget the issue you will be very free of mind.And you will have lot of peace also. Nike replied. Hello Anupama Luthra,
IT was very shame on your part and i think you felt very bad in front of your mother in law.So you need to forget the incident which was happened for you.So better you forget that thing.So every thing will be normal also. hetal replied. ohh my god.... but when you know you ar enot doing anything wrong then convince your MIL that what she is thinking about you is not correct. give a trust to her that you are not doing such things purposely. and try to be care about your cloths so they would not get here and there. and i am sure if you try to teach your daughter about her safety and things she will also know that you are not doing it purposely. don't worry much about it. mrs renu replied. anupama i had some related experience which felt me v small in front of my loving daughter and raise many confusions
i am married working mom from pose society in mumbai i had a family friend vinod who is y gud friend many times i go with him to market or sometimes he drop me in his car
on saturday after washing cloths i put them on balcony for dry which slips away and fall on vinod balcony after some time i ring his bell and he gve me my cloths inbetween i noticed my fancy pink lingerie got stuck on his watch i just try to get it suddenly my daughter come from school and saw me taking my lingerie form him "she shout mumma wt u doing " i really feel shame