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Miscarriage and Child Loss:3 Missed Abortions - please advice
2007-04-06
Name: tanishkakhanna



Hi, I am 28 years, married for last 2 years. i had concieved the first time after 6 months of our marriage but it was a natural miscarriage while sleeping at night started bleeding the pregnancy was of 5 weeks 4 days. After 6 months of the miscarriage i had conceived again. but there was a brown disharge that started after my first check up and the doctor had put me on hrmonal ingestions. after six weeks the first sonography showed no featal heart beat the fetal pole and the yolk sac was present. waited till the ninth week and still no growth and no heartbeat the featus had been of 5 week and six days till then therefore had to go in for an abortion. we had done all our test the toxo, thyroid, TB, an endoscopy as well as a laproscopy was done to check the ovaries everything was fine and the hormonal test was done to check the hormones are getting the right signal from the brains that was also fine. so we decided to try again after a year we tried and i had conceived again this time it was so normal no backaches no brown discharge no bleeding but this time too te baby' s growth stopped after 5 week six days and no heartbeat.

this time the product of conception is send fr testing. awaiting report.

please advice as to why this is happening. do i need to do some more test the doctor said that the featus that was aborted was perfect and normal to the stage it was i.e. six weeks and had developed normally.

would like to know if similiar cases had happened previously and waht can be the cause of the recurrent miscarriages.

my Husbands reports of his sperm count was normal. owever the first report that was done during my first pregnancy showed 55 abnomal sperm whereas the next report done after 1 year showed no abnomal sperm count.

plaese suggest what kind of procedre do i need to follow.

thank you
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2007-04-24
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Anonymous Name: catherine
Subject:  miscarriages



Hello, I had a first miscarriage at 14 weeks in May 2003, it was just before I went for my first scan so I don' t know what happened to my baby, they just found an empty sack. Obviously, this was devastating and totally unexpected. I then had another 2 miscarriages within the next year, both around 6/7 weeks. My husband and I were utterly devastated. We both had some blood tests done and H had a camera put in my womb to check for abnormalities. All the tests came back clear to our surprised. We decided to wastle no time and try again, I fell pregnant in October 2004 and was obviously very anxious, the time passed really slowly until my first early scan at 6 weeks, and to our sheer delight, there was a heartbeat and everything looked normal! We were over the moon, but still a little anxious. Anyway, everything went OK and we had a lovely baby boy in July 2005. However, we have recently just had another 2 miscarriages so I really don' t understand why it is happening again, it doesn' t make sense. Anyway, this message is really sent to show that anything is possible and you should never give up hope! Good luck.
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2007-04-12
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
Subject:  wait 4 results THEN decide



Hi There,

Sorry to read that you have struggled through all of this but I must agree with Sudha and suggest that you wait for the results of the testing. As you explained you' ve had lots of tests and so far you' ve not had any problematic results... You might find that posting your questions on the Planning a Baby boards will provide you with more information that might help you decide the next step. I hope that everything goes well and that you' ll be a mother soon
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2007-04-09
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Anonymous Name: sasi
Subject:  hi



have u had Anti nuclear antibody test? if you are ANA positive , that could lead to spontaneous miscarriage. there are also several other antibodies, eg. anti phosphate etc. my cousin lost her first fetus at 12 weeks due to being ANA positive.
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2007-04-06
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Anonymous Name: sudha
Subject:  hi



dear Taniska
hi and how are you now? waait and see what the reports say i would say.if necessary take a 2nd opinion .there are some biological occurance which are unexplainable.even i went through fetal death when she was 32 weeks though i had unmonitored bp and sugar but the exat cause was never determined
rather it remains unexplained
did u get genetic profiling done and a papsmear test done??ask your doc about it .next time when you are trying let the doc know and be fully equiped that the moment you conceive you be under total care.believ me and if it has to happen it will happen whatever happens.there are so many cases a baby was born at 20 weeks and he had survived and healthy and has celebrated 1yr of birthday.
have faith be happy and all will be fine
love
sudha
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