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Miscarriage and Child Loss:I AM PSYCHOLOGIST AND COUNSELLOR
2009-08-20
Name: saina



THERE ARE TIMES AND SITUATION WHEN PEOPLE CANNOT HOLD THEIR FEELINGS THAT EVERY THING IS FINISHED IN THEIR LIFE.MISCARRIAGE IS ONE OF THE TRAUMA WHICH A FEMALE,MALE,AND OTHER MEMBERS GO THROUGH.THEY FEEL NOW THEIR LIFE IS NUM WITH NO GOALS AND CANNOT GET ON TRACK SPECIALLY MALE AND FEMALE.
LADIES OUT THEIR I WANT TO SHARE MY STORY WITH U THAT
MY ELDER SISTER 3YEARS BACK CONCEIVED AND DELIVERED A CUTE LITTLE BABY GAL SHE WAS SO MUCH BEAUTIFUL,FAIR,WITH JET BLACK HAIR AND EYES,WITH HER SMALL EARS..INSIDE,SHE WAS WELL NORMAL BABY CHILD WITH 58.4CM HEIGHT AND 3 PONDS WEIGHT,SHE WAS HEALTHY ENOUGH TO SURVIVE AS SHE WAS PREMATURED GAL SHE SURVIVED WITH US FOR 15 DAYS AND DURING THAT PERIOD DIDI USED TO FEED HER HER MILK,DRESS HER,MY MOTHER GOT LOADS OF GIFTS AND HAD SHOPPED FOR HER FROM FOREIGN KIDS CLOTHINGS..WE WRE VERY HAPPY THAT SHE WAS LIVING AND DIDI WAS ALSO HAPPY BUT WHEN ON HER 9 DAY HER MOUTH STARTED FLUSHING OUT BLOOD AND SOON SHE WAS TAKEN TO ANOTHER HOSPITAL AS WE WERE TRAVELLING THE BABY IN ABULANCE HER PULSES AND HEART BEATS GOT STRONG ENOUGH...SHE STARTED RESPIRATING FASTER....SOON SHE WAS ADMITTED IN HOSPITAL AND DURING MID NIGHT AT 3AM WE LOST HER....THIS WAS NOT EASY FOR US AS WE HOLDED HER FOR ATLEAST 9 DAYS AND ON 10 DAY SHE WAS NO MORE..IT WAS HARD US TO TELL MY SISTER ABUT ALL THIS THINGS AS SHE WAS NOT AWARE AND WAS RESTING IN THAT VERY HOSPITAL..BUT JIJU WAS ABLE TO TELL HER AND SHE WAS NUM AND DID NOT CRIED WE WRE SO AFFRAID THAT SHE SHOULD CRY..WE DID ALL THE POSSIBILITIES TO MAKE HER CRY BUT AFTER ONE DAY WHEN SHE REALISED SUDDENLY SHE HAD LOST HER CHILD SHE BURSTED AND CRIED FOR DAYS AND MONTHS FOR HER CHILD.WE MADE AN EFFORT TO TRAVELL BOTH OF THEM FOR A TRIP TO HOLIDAY...WHEN SHE RETURN FROM THERE SHE WAS OK AND AFTER ONE MONTH SHE CONCIEVED AGAIN AND TODAY WITH GOD GRACE SHE MOTHER OF A BABY BOY....WE ARE ALL PROUD AF HER AND NOW SHE IS ONCE AGAIN HAPPY...AND TIME IS A BEST HEALER FOR OUR PAINS
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