Originally Posted by
Arushi Sahai
My husband and I are newly married and very happy in general but sex life has problems.
During sex, my husband finishes very quickly and I don't get an orgasm or get satisfied. Even using his fingers or oral sex doesn't make me cum. Always it happens that he is just getting me to the brink of my climax and then suddenly he will change or stop what he is doing or just give up. I have tried telling him what I like and what turns me on but it hasnt helped. Poor guy tries so hard but he is feeling very bad about it.
Another major problem with our sex life, is that his penis cannot stay hard enough to finish the job. He goes soft midway..We've tried different positions etc.
He tries hard to satisfy me and I am supportive and tell him its okay but I worry that this will ruin our marriage which is so beautiful otherwise. Any ideas what to do?