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Miscarriage and Child Loss:For Jyoti

2007-09-06

Name: Tryingtobepositive Hi Jyoti,

I have been trying to post a message for you for last 2 days but for some reason it is not getting posted.

I am so sorry for your loss and know what you are going through.I myself had a miscarriage 3 mths ago.I know it is very hard but please don' t think about dying.And don' t let what people say affect you.Ignore your friend' s mother.She is showing off to make herself feel better.

I understand that you have had a hard life but remember inspite of everything you have a master' s degree and an educated and supportive husband.The great Lord is very kind,He just likes to test some people more than others.

Let your body heal for about a month and whenever yo are mentally and physically ready you can try for another baby.Have faith,you will have a beautiful and healthy baby oneday.

I have found alot of support here and I am sure you will find the same.Feel free to write your thoughts and how you are feeling and I will try my best to help you out as will some others.

Wish you all the best.

Take care and God Bless you.

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2007-09-09

Name: tara
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hi i just joined and read your message i thought it was worded very well i went thru a misscarriage 4weeks ago and had to go thru labour and im worried coz as soon as i stopped bleeding i started trying straight away its sounds a bit insensitive but im lookin forward would that harm the baby if i end up pregnant again so soon after having a misscarriage?

2007-09-10

Name: Tryingtobepositive
Subject:

Hi Tara!

I am so sorry for what you had to go through.I know how it feels.

How far along were you when you had your miscarriage?It is a good thing to give your body a chance to heal.What did your doctor suggest? I don´ t think it will harm your baby in any way.However,your body may need a little break.

I don´ t think it is insensitive in anyway.I myself wanted to start right away but my doctor wanted me to wait for a month.Make sure you are mentally and emotionally ready more than anything else.

Wish you all the best and hope you will be blessed with a baby soon.

Good luck.

Take care.

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