Hey guys,

I saw your reponses, first of all I didn't remove any one and banned any one.

I sent that mail to everyone because I really wanted to identity of you guys, some weeks before I saw a member who had never posted any msg at yahoo group and his sex identity was male and when I removed him there was no complain.

so tell me how can i know who is valid person here, we created this group for our personal info we share snaps and every single thought. we too want some privacy.and those snaps can be downloaded by any one who is member of this group.

I understand people who are in india they are they don't get much time, and their internet speed is slow but u do agree that u read msg, but why you people can not reply to single msg once in 2 or 3 months.

we made this group for sharing info I do agree that sometime I am also not that active member but still I try to write whenver i get time, and I am moderator of this group I have some responsibilty if i find somthing suspicious I have full right to know who is who.

So I will appreciate if u all can let me know about yourself.

I am sorry if this is creating a problem for you people.

So Arusha, NeetuP, Neha, if you can let me know something about yourself i will be more than happy to send you guys invitation.

Hope this doesn't offenf you guys,I hope you can understand our concern.

Thanks
Neetu MM replied. Hey NeetuP,
We all read ur msg about urself in another thread. And hopefully U must have recieved an invitation for the yahoo group by now. Welcome to yahoogroups.
Awaiting to see ur msgs there.
Take care
Meenu manaswini replied. girls who have not been included yet into yahoo groups please dont take things offensively
we all who are into yahoo groups rt now may sound blunt and rude but i agree to neetu and meenu that its just because of the matter of privacy we are sounding strict. we have never said we will not include u.we are just asking u to let us know abt urself more so that we also can accept u in our groups with ease.
so as girls pls understand our concern about privacy.
As told by meenu its very understandable that in india connection is a problem but all we expect here it atleast one message a week atleast.
so pls understand our position and dont feel rejected by anyone of us in yahoo groups
hope u all understand
Thanks
-Manaswini
MM replied. Hey All,
Its true that some of us after active consultation decided to send out a mail to everybody who doesnt want to be subscribed to the group but havent yet removed anyone frm the group.
But complaining about updates not being replied...I wud rather ask U all guys how many updates have u replied over the past. How many times have u all written? I have been posting updates regularily but no replies to my updates dont upset me, bcoz I know I might have missed replying some of ur updates. Plus everybody isnt me either. We do agree that the connection access and time limitations are there for people accessing frm India but U guys have to give us benefit of doubt since we share lots n lots of personal info(like snaps/phone nos. etc, 2morrow we'll be sharing our kiddos info too) on the yahoo group. I personally have experienced this on India Parenting board, when I posted my snaps, I recieved couple of creepy msgs awaiting friendship proposals. Its sucking really.
And all we ask from U guys is occasionally posting in a hi hello msg frm U all, so that we know U R still there.
Pl. dont feel offended. We still do share information on IP board for all of us but Yahoo groups was made in to create some privacy.
So pl. dont consider it rude and we sure wud love to create a big happy mommy family.
So pl. dont feel offended and dont feel we r bossing the group or being unfair to anyone. Once U share all ur info on the group U wud feel the same concern about protecting ur privacy.
Take care all of U
Meenu