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Hi Friends,

My wife had a vow to do headshave at temple, but she is hesitating to do that and she feels shy about to face people after that, so she is tensed. How to convience her and give a moral support to her. i am helpless and worried about her. i told her that even i will join with her for headshave

Thanks Maitili replied. Hi Chandu, at start it will be a bit problematic for people to go for head shave as they are getting it done for the first time however with time she will be ok so do not worry. Ritu replied. Hey chandu, did your wife get her head shaved? How did you convince her to do it or she just decided to do it on her own after some time? Why had she vowed to get her head shaved in the first place? No name replied. Show her the pictures of different celebrities with shaved heads and tell her that she will look as good as she looks now even with the bald head and there is nothing to think about in that and that she should just do it. NN replied. See she would have vowed to shave her head in the temple but what matters to god is that she believes in him and nothing else. He won't get mad if she does not shave her head and go bald for him. NN replied. Don't force your wife to do something is is not comfortable doing it. If she has vowed to shave her head in the temple then give her some time to think and give her some space and in some time when she is ready she will do it. NN replied. Tell her that being bald is nothing to be shamed and a lot of people do it. She just has to be confident about her look and no matter how she looks people be compliment her confidence and appreciate her for what she has done. No Name replied. Hi Chandu,
If you had vow you need to fulfill other wise it will become late and you need to do it immediately because since it is vow you have to fulfill other wise it will not keep peace to you and you will be free tension free also. Candu replied. Hi Chandu,
Convince her with an explanation of problem she will understand. Explain her why she kept vow for god say to her that am their for you no need to get tensed. This will give some courage to her. Trid replied. Hello Chandu,
What have you done then, did you convince your wife how do she said okay. Did she got tensed heavily. How did you give moral support to her. Candy replied. Hi Chandu,
What have you done did you go for tirumala for tonsure. Try to convince her with some soothing words so that she can convinced and doesn't feel tensed for doing tonsure. Good luck. Joe replied. Hello Chandu,
You need to ask her before vowing a vow she need to think a lot.She had prayed and she must do it. For next time ask her not to wish such type of vows to god. NN replied. Hello Chandu,
It is very simple ask her why she kept her vow to god on what reason, after that ask her whether it got fulfilled or not if it got fulfilled ten you have to keep the word for god because he has given her what she has asked. No Name replied. Hello Chandu,
You ave been posted this message an year ago have you done tonsure for your wife and yourselves. Did she got convinced for tonsure. If not when are you moving to fulfill the vow for god. Pandey replied. Hello Chandu,
Your wife is very lucky to have such husband who supports in every issue. Try to speak her in a smooth way so that she may agree. Wishing you good luck. Nikki replied. Hello Chandu,
Try to convince her that's not a problem when vow is given to god it must be fulfilled explain her in nice manner. Any how you told her that you will join in that so try to support a lot. reshma replied. just give her moral support and keep givig it it will help her to so. krishnaa kumar replied. this krishnaa kumar i am a barber at tirupathi temple. mr Chandu if you are planning to tirupathi i can help you here by providing you female barber.
say madam to don´ t worry. so many people with long hair they are shaving happily. krishna replied. Dear Chandu,
Hello bro how are you iam also agree with Radha words she said correct giving hair to god is a good thing why we are giving hair to god is we belive good and pray something to be full fill so better you try to convince you wife in a better way why because now a days many ladies or doing headsahve in temples so tell to your wife be happy to go for headsahve
and can you plz provide your mail is plz
BYE TC Bro krishna replied. Hi Chandu,
Hello bro how are you and happy to hear that your wife had a vow to go for headsahve in temple that is really good but you told that she is feeling shy to go for headsahve that is natural to ladies bro but we need to convince them +ve lly why because once we taken a vow to god we must and should to fulfill that vow
and bro if you don´ t have any objection BYE TC bro Radha replied. Dear Chandu
I would like your wife to see my following posting.
My posting ' Gundu to get a husband' dated 2009-06-02 in the main thread \" Daughter' s mottai\" by Kamala P dated 2009-5-30.
I am 45 year old housewife. Being not able to get a husband, I had a vow of head tonsure after marriage. I shaved my head in a family mottai session immediately after my marriage, 19 years ago. I felt so elated that it was a boon that I was married into a family where 5 yearly family tonsure is the norm. So after 1996, I again got tonsured in 2001, 2006 and 2011. I am looking forward to the 2016 Tirupati tonsure. Each time it is so refreshing to cast off long hairs and return smoothly bald. So, do not hesitate. Get mottaied happily.