Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

Hi Friends,

My wife had a vow to do headshave at temple, but she is hesitating to do that and she feels shy about to face people after that, so she is tensed. How to convience her and give a moral support to her. i am helpless and worried about her. i told her that even i will join with her for headshave

Thanks Radha replied. Dear Chandu
Many women who have a desire to get their head shaved as part of a vow have lot of hesitation and nervousness and this is natural. But the essential thing is whether her vow is by herself or taken under pressure from somebody. And I presume that in the case of your wife, it is by herself.
Through this letter, I would like tell her this.
Dear sister, getting a head shave in a temple is one of the best experiences a woman can have. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will enjoy it a lot. Do not worry about what others say. Definitely many will ask you the reason, many will make wrong comments. But please ignore all those. There are some who really appreciate a bald look but they will not openly say so. So do not worry. Go ahead and get tonsured fully happily, go around with bare bald head, ignore those who look at you wrongly, smile with those who smile at you. And you will enjoy your bald state. Go ahead and do it at the earliest.