Hi all,
what to say, i am just trying to save my pregnancy but don' t know what is fated. it appears taht i will have miscarriage( writing with holding tears in my eyes).
i concieved after 7 years of my marriage . initially the result came negative so i thought i am not pregnaant but afetr one month over to my last periods i went to doc. she confirmed the test to be positive . we all were very happy but day before yesterday i had stomach( lower part) pain and a spot of blood. imidiately consulted a doc., she gave me medicine and asked for scan, we went and seeing the result doc said that the embryo is only 10 days old but as per calculations it should be approx one month. still she asked me to take complete bed rest which i am taking.she said she will wait for next ten days to see the growth and the stituation of bleeding.
today i have less pain and the bleeding aslo seems to be slightly less but if the embryo is not growing properly than she will do DNC. that day is going to be very bad for me.
i don' t know what i should do?
i need everybody' s prayer taht some miracle happens and the embryo starts growing properly and my pregency is safe..........(i can only wish)
neelima Vini replied. Hi Neelima.
Plz do not worry and pray to GOD. I understand the pain u goin through bcause i lost my child too..I am married for 6 yrs and after a long long time I conceived and had a baby boy on 25th April 2009. He was alive for just 4 hrs and I lost him. I pray to GOD everyday to provide me enough strength to bear the pain and for sure from today u wld always be there in my prayers.
Take care..
Vini Samyukta replied. Hi Neelima,

I understand as i have gone thru the same. I conceived after 6 yrs and had a miscarriage similar situation. I conceived again after 3 months of miscarriage. Took real good care and have a one yr old daughter. I am writing this to you to say that dont worry, since the embryo had not developed well and could not grow. So its better you get a healthy child. But i did not do any DNC. It was a natural. Please check with your gynaec if you really have to go for a DNC for it.

Best of Luck. May god give you a healthy baby soon.
Regards
Samyukta abcd replied. hi neelima,

how r u?by reading your message i can very well make out how u are feeling.i really dont know what to say,but just pray to god that he should give you strength to face everything.i wish u all the best for your pregnency.

this section is good in supporting women.even i had to abort my child because of medical reasons.u can imagime what i would have gone through.days were like empty,but see im also trying to move ahead in life.

i know ur marriage is 7 years and if such complications have to be faced then its very painful,but neelima just try to be positive.its easy to say but then what else can we do.

no one in this world can question god authority,its he only who knows why he is doing all this.

this board is very supprtive specially because all of us has been faced with some or the other problems and sorrows.try to keep in touch and relax.

i sincerly wish all goes fine. Tryingtobepositive replied. Hi Neelima,

I know exactly how you are feeling.I had a missed abortion and had to have D&C.It was our first pregnancy and I am married for over 6 years now.

I want you to listen to your doctor and get as much bedrest as possible.Also try to relax and be positive.I know its hard when you don' t know the fate of your baby but getting stressed is just going to make it difficult.Try to relax the best you can and have faith.The Supreme LOrd has a plan for everyone and He will take good care of you and your baby.

All of us will keep you in our prayers.

Take care.