I am a 28 years old male living in vikroli mumbai. I live alone here since last 4 years and my family is in my native.i keep long hairs upto my waist and normally tie it in a pony or a plait or some time in a bun. Since last 1 month ihave been suffering with lice infection in my hair. As a stay alone i have no one to take care of it . So i discussed this with my neighbours daughter who is very close to me. She initally laughted at me, but then told me she will come next day afternoon. I wondered what she was goingto do. Next day she came in the afternoon and showed me the lice comb she had bought for me. She asked me tobring coconut oil bottle and sit facing my back to her. Sheopened myplait and started searching for nits in myhair by moving her fingers in my hair. After some time she oiled my hair heavily and started combing my hairs with lice come. She found many and handed over to me for killing. This continued for about 1 hour until no more lice were found in lice comb. Then she tied my hair in bun andasked me to clean my clothes and keep the comb. She told she will repeat this after 2 or 3 days so as to get rid of lice. I thanked her. I immediatly felt a huge relief by itching scalp. after another 2 sessions i got much relief. Atlast i thought i was free from lice. But again yesterday night i felt lot of itching and so went to her home to ask for licecombing. Her mother (my neighbouring aunt) opened the door and told me she had gone to some relatives place for 2 days. She also told me that her daughter had discussed my lice issue to her and she can do tomorrow morning for me if i dont mind. I smiled and she asked me to bring my lice comb and come to her house. Today even being sunday i woke early and had bath took the lice comb and went to her place,. She also followed the same routine as her daughter did but oiled my hair more heavily. Just finished 2 hour of lice combing from her. She had asked me not to wash my hair and come in afternoon when she and her 2 maids will make me sit in our common balcony or terrece and do harsh and painful licecoombing. Also asked me to buy 3 lice comb and bottle of castoroil which she will mix with coconut oil and apply in my hair before licecombing, just purchased licecombs and castoroil.
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I am a 28 years old male living in vikroli mumbai. I live alone here since last 4 years and my family is in my native.i keep long hairs upto my waist and normally tie it in a pony or a plait or some time in a bun. Since last 1 month ihave been suffering with lice infection in my hair. As a stay alone i have no one to take care of it . So i discussed this with my neighbours daughter who is very close to me. She initally laughted at me, but then told me she will come next day afternoon. I wondered what she was goingto do. Next day she came in the afternoon and showed me the lice comb she had bought for me. She asked me tobring coconut oil bottle and sit facing my back to her. Sheopened myplait and started searching for nits in myhair by moving her fingers in my hair. After some time she oiled my hair heavily and started combing my hairs with lice come. She found many and handed over to me for killing. This continued for about 1 hour until no more lice were found in lice comb. Then she tied my hair in bun andasked me to clean my clothes and keep the comb. She told she will repeat this after 2 or 3 days so as to get rid of lice. I thanked her. I immediatly felt a huge relief by itching scalp. after another 2 sessions i got much relief. Atlast i thought i was free from lice. But again yesterday night i felt lot of itching and so went to her home to ask for licecombing. Her mother (my neighbouring aunt) opened the door and told me she had gone to some relatives place for 2 days. She also told me that her daughter had discussed my lice issue to her and she can do tomorrow morning for me if i dont mind. I smiled and she asked me to bring my lice comb and come to her house. Today even being sunday i woke early and had bath took the lice comb and went to her place,. She also followed the same routine as her daughter did but oiled my hair more heavily. Just finished 2 hour of lice combing from her. She had asked me not to wash my hair and come in afternoon when she and her 2 maids will make me sit in our common balcony or terrece and do harsh and painful licecoombing. Also asked me to buy 3 lice comb and bottle of castoroil which she will mix with coconut oil and apply in my hair before licecombing, just purchased licecombs and castoroil.
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT nice to hear from you. I am glad to know your nose has healed up. Do you wear the nath all the time?. What did the maids say when they first saw it.?. How long has aunt and maids gone to native. This is why you need to keep a maid for yourself who can help you with oiling and licecombing. Have you started to look for one. I told my maids about your nath,they were surprised and started smiling. Its good to know the gajra girl came to your house and tied gajra. Does she have long hair and is it oiled. Maybe she can oil your hair if you ask her. My brothers ritual is going fine. Every saturday he joins us for oiling. The maids take good care of him. Last week one of the maids told him to oil everyday and not only weekend. He said only before bedtime and not during day as he is out. She was happy to hear that, so now he gets his hair oiled every night by the maids after they comb and oil their hair. Last Saturday 2 of maids friends from a neighboring house came to our house for oiling session we were 5 of us. They had longthick hair too. It was a good oiling g session, and then my brother came and was surprised to see so many of us. The maids followed their routine and even their friends helped. Are you still using shalimar oil. P!ease write soon in detail aboutt oiling session.
longhairlady replied. Hello MNT hope you are feeling better now. Sorry could not write for long time, my computer had a problem so had to be fixed and I was also away for sometime. My brother' s oiling session went very well. Like I said before my maid sister came for a day and she agreed to help out. So on Saturday morning she came and met us all. She told me she will talk to my brother, so after breakfast she went to my brothers room and started combing her hair, and she asked him about his studies and general stuff, she had really long and thick hair. Then she noticed my brother itching his hair a lot, so she said why don' t you oil your hair, it will help you. He said doesn' t like it. So then she told him that guys lose their hair faster if they have lice and don' t oil it. That got my brother thinking,so be asked a lot of questions and she answered them all. In the end she said we girls are having a oiling session in the afternoon and if you want can join us. My brother said he will think about it and he had worried look on his face. Around 2 in the afternoon we all sat for oiling session watching TV. My brotber joined us to watch tv a bit later. The maids sister oiled all our hair heavily and then the maids oiled hers. She said to keep our hair open and she will tie a bun later. Then she looked at my brother and said if you don' t want to lose your hair then join us for oiling session. My brother was okay I will try it for once. Both the maids were happy to hear that. So my maids sister told one of the maids to warm up the coconut oil and get a bowl a d castor oil too. She told my brother to wear a ganji so he went and put on one. Both the maids then made him sit in front of the maids sister. They both had licecombs in their hand. She took the warm oil and poured the bowl on his hair. All the maids massaged his hair and one of them massage his face as the oil dripped. After 20 mins they licecombed him and found like 6 lices. The sister then snowed it to him and said if you don' t treat your hair right you will lose all your hair. The maids were very happy to be oiling him. All 3 of them took turns in oiling and licecombing him. Castor oil was used too layer with coconut oil. In the end the maids combed his hair all the way back and it was shining. Then the maids sister ties all our hair in bun on the top of our head. She then told my brother not to do anything as after dinner she will check his hair again. He said okay. Then after dinner the maids were again combing their hair and then my brother was called and made to sit down. She checked his hair again and oiled it more, both the other maids took turns too. She told him to ha e oiling session with the maids every weekend to treat his lice problem. And he agreed both the maids were happy to hear it and said they will take extra care of him. By the wayduri g our oiling session we spoke of you to the sister she was really happy to know how much care you take of your hair. My maids are asking me if you found a long haired maid for your self. Please do reply in detail of your nose peiercing and oiling sessions. Did you get massage from maids and found a maid. Please reply soon MNT
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT
How are you? I think you should buy gajras and a veni. You can tell them to tie it after piercing not before that. I told the maids about the gajra and veni, they were very happy about it. They said now you really need a long hair maid to tale care of you or two like them they laughed. One of my maids sister is coming for a day and my maid said she has very long hair and oils it everyday, she is around forty and big built and will help us with the licecombing. Tell the gajra girl you buy it for yourself. I am sure she will find it funny but like it. Both my maids are looking forward to licecombing, let me know how your goes, do let me know in detail. Write soon MNT
longhairlady replied. Hello MNT, I think if you trust aunty very much then let her take care of it. Let me know how your session went. I told the maids about you finding a maid for yourself. The were very happy to hear about it. Its a good idea to take aunty and maids idea to find a maid for you. One of the maids also bought 2 licecombs today, so I guess we are ready for Saturday. I think you should tell the gajra girl you buy it for yourself. What do you think ?. Write soon MNT
longhairlady replied. Hello MNT Thanks for writing soon, yes I like the oiling sessions everyday now. I like the massage they do too. I hope in your next oiling session you don' t forget to ask the maids to massage you. I have not told the maids yet about the gajra and veni, I will now since you have no problem with that. The reason they gave me for you to have a maid is that its difficult to lice comb by yourself, oiling is not much of a problem. A maid who takes goodcare of her own hair and oils its everyday will take good care of your hair too. After u wrote about your suggestions I spoke to the the maids. We decided to go ahead with licecombing this Saturday. The maids have been talking a out lice to him every time they see him itching his head. They suggested forceful licecombing on Saturday. Advise me how we should go about it. I think you should pierce 3 hole in both ears. I have seenbous with 2 pierced holes in the ears. I am sure the earrings will look good. I thought about the nose piercing and my advice to you is that since your really desire to wear the nath, go and do it. As long it makes you happy do it. Good to know you got to wear the gajrsa again, does the gajra girl know you buy them for yourself. Please write soon waiting for your advice, in detail if you can thanks MNT
longhairlady replied. Hello MNT, Hope your trip to native was good. Since you did not write back for so long I knew you had gone to native. I am happy to get my hair oiled everyday. The maids really take good care of my hair. Once while oiling my hair I told them about you that as a guy how much care you take of your hair. They were really impressed and even said that you should keep a maid with long hair who would oil your hair everyday instead of you doing it by yourself. Thanks for your advice about my brother, one of the maids last week even bought a big bottle of shalimar coconut oil and castor oil and said this will be used for his licecombing, I told the maids to wait until I heard from you. My maids have been oiling their hair and mine too in the living room instead of the balcony as he watch' s TV and can see us. I actually told them that he like long hair so they have been keeping their hair open or tying it loose heavily oiled. Please advise to me how the maids can start talking to him. Ask aunty maids if you canfor suggestion. I think this Saturday would be a good day for licecombing for him.
About your nath I feel bad that aunty could not get a clip on. I suggest you get your ears pierced first. Try the earinga and see how it looks. Give me some time to think about nose piercing. How are the maids, any oiling session with them this week. Please write soon soon MNT happy you at back
longhairlady replied. hello MNT, how are you ? Thanks for replying soon. Its good to know that any woman can wear the nath. I think you can get a clip on nath done. The only reason they give is because it too heavy to carry you need to pierce nose, but since you will only wear it inside your house for only some time it will not be a problem. Tell aunty that and she can ask her friend. let me know what u think, as you won' t be wearing the nath in public you don' t need to pierce nose, get your ears pierced if you want. I am taking your advice and will get my hair oiled everyday. The maids were happy to hear it, and we have a oiling session in the afternoon. They asked me what made me change my mind, I told them a friend suggested it . I need some advice from you, as I believe you can really help me. I have a younger brother who is 19 years old. He has a thick set of hair not has long as yours but can tie a small ponytail. He has been itching his hair a lot. I think he might have lice, so isugested to put oil and do licecombing. He refused and said no oil as he doesn' t like it. I talked to the maids and they even said they noticed it too. They suggested they will make him join oiling session and do lice combing to him. Yesterday one of the maids while serving breakfast even ran her fingers through his hair and found it dry and rough, she suggested oiling it but he refused. I talked to the maids about him and they said they will try to talk to him about oiling his hair. Both my maids are in their 30 and been with us for some years so they are like family. They have really long hair and oil it everyday, so they want to take care of his hair too. I know you have aunty and the maids taking good care of you. Please advice me what I can say to maids to convince him. Should they plan something, to trick him into oiling or do forceful oiling and licecombing. Since they have been with us from he was young, they can be stern. They were saying if not today then Saturday would be a good day to oil his hair. I even suggested castor oil and they like the idea. Please advise soon MNT.
longhairlady replied. Hello, MNT how are you? I do not know if only married women can wear nath. Ask aunty about it, she will know. I think any woman can wear it otherwise aunty would told you that. Ask aunty to talk to her friend maybe she can get a clip on nath done for you. As for the earring go with the gun as it is more modern and safe. Are you going to get both ears pierced. Do aunty and maids wear earring everyday. When the maids were massaging you how much oil did they use. Were they sitting behind you or in front. How did they massage your neck and forehead? Next time ask them to massage you for 20 mins. It will help your body relax. Aunty can help too. If you get your ears pierced ask them to suggest you what kind of earrings will look good on you. What about bindi, does the maids and aunty make you wear one. My maids oils my hair twice a week, she oils her long hair everyday. She takes good care of it, and she wants to oil my hair everyday after she oils hers. Please advise what u think. Write soon MNT
longhairlady replied. hello MNT, thanks for a quick reply. I hope you enjoy the festival. Is there anything you do ddiffrent during festival. I am glad you liked my suggestion about earring and found hand massage relaxing. Please describe in detail hand massage with maids. What was maid reaction when u asked them about hand massage. Now you can enjoy hand massage every weekend. Let me know if you get your ears pierced. Write soon MNT
longhairlady replied. ri MNT, Thanks for writing soon, aunty made a good suggestion,I think you should go to jewelry store and talk to person and ask them to make you same nath but with a clip on. It is better as they can advise you whether they can do it or not. I think they can custom make it for you. It would be better as with a clip on you don' t need to Peirce the the nose. You could also ask about clip on earrings. If you want get ears peireced as guys wear earings too and the holes are small. Let me know what u think. What choti did aunt tie you. Did they like shalimar oil. It good you like to oil your hair everyday. I just wished having a maid would take proper care of your hair. Please let me know how oiling session with maids go, did they massage your hands. It would be nice to make nath for the maids too as they take good care to you. Then all of you can wear it and take picture. Write soon MNT thanks
longhairlady replied. Your hands. It is very relaxing. Ask the maids to massage your hands with oil. Reply soon MNT
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT, how are you? Hope you had a nice week. My suggestion is that you talk to aunty to get a custom made nath, like she has only difference is it has to be a clip on. She would do it for you? Between aunty and the maids who had the longest hair when they oiled their hair and wore veni. Did you buy shalimar oil for them. I think you should talk to maids to get a maid for u with long hair and who oils it heavily every day. for yourself. I mean you oil your hair
everyday and if you have a maid and she can do it you everyday. She can even
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT, Hope you had a nice week. It was nice of you to buy venis for aunt and maids. Were their hair already in a bun when you gave them the venis or they changed hairstyle. Who had the biggest bun and oilest bun between all of you?. Its nice you showed the maids the nath ,you should give them a bottle of shalimar to use it in their hair. How did the oiling and lice combing go this week? Any new hair styles you tried out. Have you ever used coconut oil for your hands and,legs like oiling them. You should try it, as it helps the skin. Mymaid made me do it this weekend,and it really felt good. She warmed shalimar oil and after applying to my hair she masaged the hands and leg. You should ask the maids to massage your hands with oil. Ask aunt about piercing your nose, if you are serious,she will help you. Reply soon MNT
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT, I am surprised and happy you liked shalimar so much. Did the maids and aunty ask you about you changing brand of oil. Did they still mix castor oil with shalimar? How was lahiriya choti. Did you like the style. How come you didn' t ask everybody to have same hairstyle last weekend? I hope you show the maids the nath too. They will really like it. Is aunty now going make you wear,one with a veni.
longhairlady replied. Hello MNT nice to hear you bought a brand I recommended and you liked it. P?ease do buy one More bottle for weekend oiling session with maids and aunty. You can wear veni by yourself. Looks like!e you bought a lot of stuff. What color is the nath ? Buy veni too for everyone e as then you have a chance to wear veni yourself. I think all of you should wear lahariya choti that day. Show the maids all the stuff you bought and let them decorate it in yout hair. Let me think so I can suggest what else you should buy Khajuria choti is a fish braid. hair is tied in a pony tail then braided tightly. Ask the maids to oil your braid properly before gajra and veni. Aunty will be happy to see you bougth nath. Do you buy gajra from same flower girl. Does,she have long hair too. Ask her to tie gajra too in your hair, she can recomemd good style to you.
Write soon MNT.
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT Nice to hear the weekend was good. It was nice that the maids tried something new. Did you ask aunty about the other choti I suggested. Ask the maids to tie a bun and wear veni. You can even try a different coconut oil like I suggested. Nath also comes in a clip on version, so you don' t need to pierce nose. Ask aunty to make you wear veni, may be she was just having fun. Even if she suggests to make you wear math she will put it on in her house and not in the open. Ii would be something very new. Ask the maids to put veni with gajra when they do a double plait. Is aunty going to oil your hair this week too. My suggestion is you buy veni for everyone and tell them to put oiled hair in bun to wear veni so everyone has same hairstyle so aunty might forget about math try this idea if you want or you can just buy gajra for everyone. Do the maids wear math? Write soon thanks
longhairlady replied. Hi I forgot to ask something. Did you wear sagar choti. How was it ? Did aunty tie you or the maids. Ask the maids to tie this choti for you. Thanks
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT How did oiling session go today ? I found it very funny autny put a bindi on you. She must be having a lot of fun with you, Nath is a nosepin worn by women. It is very common in Maharashtra. A little bit long in size. Aunty just might make you wear one next time. Did you try the new choti today. Were the maids,present too or aunty friend. I wonder what the maids would do if they found out. I am sure they would make u try new things too. Ask the maids to pit a veni and see what happens. I am sure they would like!e it just as aunty did. If they make fun it would be pretty harmless. I think you should see what they wear during oiling session and wear the same thing gajra or veni. All of you would have the same thing in the hair. Do the maids put oil in your hair together or they take turns. Write soon MNT. Thanks
longhairlady replied. Hi MNT, what was aunt' s reaction that you were scared to ask the maids. I have a new hair style which you should try its called lahariya choti. It will also look good. Its like a plait in the middle of open hair. Ask aunty about it. Yes veni and gajra can be worn together. I always use veni in a bun. Does the maids also oil their hair everyday. Have u ever tried any other brands of coconut oil. I have used shalimar sometimes, ask the maids to use it on you. Does aunty friend d join her during licecombimg? Please write soon. Thanks
longhairlady replied. Hello MNT, I went out of town over the week end, so could not reply. Sagar choti is another name for French braid. It will really look good on you. Aunty made a great choice. Your hair will be heavily oiled and a tight oiled braid that will taper down. I recommend gajra with it. Ask the maids to tie it around the whole braid. Please write in detail your other 2 oiling session. When the maids oil your hair do they pours bowl over your head or put it in their hands and massage it in your hair. When the maids did not listen to you during reverse combing were they angry or just having fun. Please write soon MNT
2016-03-06
#61
Name: MNT Subject: RE:hi
Thanks dear for your suggestions, but have tried licil and Medicare oil, both does not worked for me. And any other remedy also dint work. My hairs are very long below my waist. So now got a habit of heavy oiling and lice combing. Daily 2 hrs of oiling and licecombing is helping me now.
2015-07-27
#62
Name: Longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hello MNT, So good to hear from you. How are you?I am sorry to hear about your hair being shaved. What comments made your sister shave your head. I am happy to know that your hair is grown again and you are oiling regular. What did aunty and the maids say about your shaved head. I hope they are oiling your hair again. Have you kept a maid for oiling routine. Do you still keep in touch with flower girl. My routine is going very well. I oil my hair daily now with the maids. My brother is doing fine. Thank you for asking. He has not cut his hair as our mother didn't want to cut his hair. He gets his hair oiled daily too and his hair is longer than shoulder length. We keep a pretty good routine. I need your advise again where my brother is concerned. My mother told me my brother will be having his sacred thread ceremony within a month for which he will need to get his nose and ears pierced for jewellery and long hair shaved only a part on top will be left and that too long so that is why his hair was not cut. He will be wearing women clothes too during ceremony. It is an old tradition and my brother has to take part in it. She advised me and the maids to oil his hair very heavily everyday and tie a long tight plait with middle parting everyday. And also start putting flowers in his hair everyday, so during ceremony he is used to it. She also said that he should start oiling my and both the maids hair too. How do I convince my brother of putting flowers in hair and oiling our hair. You like flowers in your hair so I ask for your advise. And also to put jewellery in his ears and nose. Please reply soon. MNT.
2016-03-07
#63
Name: MNT Subject: RE:Contd
Dear Longhairlady
Hi
Actually I was not in a condition to write as you know my sister made me shave my head,
She came to stay with me for a week and saw I daily oil my hair s heavily and did licecombing, but she was fine with that, but when she saw me wearing jasmine gajras one day she was annoyed. Next day again I came home wearing 12 gajras after group session, she called the barber and he shaved my head.
Anyway it's fine now and things are back to normal, and my hairs have grown back almost touching my waist.
Hos u and how was your brothers upanayam.
Pls write soon
Mnt
2014-11-05
#64
Name: simmy Subject: about haircut
i am also suffered with lice on my hair.
am using many shampoos but its no use and much hair will fall.unable to manage it.i have mid length hair. so suggest me.my mother suggest me go for any short haircut.is it helpful for rid of lice.which haircut will be helpfull.suggest me
2014-08-12
#65
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hello MNT How are you ? Long time no replies. Hope all is good. P!ease reply soon.
2015-05-19
#66
Name: MNT Subject: contnd
Dear Longhairlady
Hi.. Hope everything is fine. Sorry couldn´ t write to you for long almost a year. I was in a very bad phase. I was forced to shave my head by my elder sister a year before, after I posted my last comments. So was not in a position to reply to you. After a year long I had grown my hair up to my shoulder. I am daily oiling it very heavily. Also got infected with lice last month, since then started regular licecombing sessions. How about u. Hos your routine going on? And ur brother.. Is he free from lice now?? Pls reply soon...
2014-07-14
#67
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hello MNT, Long time no news. Hope all is well. How is the oiling sessions going ? please reply soon
Thanks
2014-06-15
#68
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hi MNT, good to hear from you, it was a long trip. During yesterdays oiling session my maids were talking about you. They were just inquiring if you kept a maid or not as I had told them about the gajra girl and how how aunty and maids had gone to native. We all put on gajras yesterday and had a long plait. My brother is out of town for the past 1 week. He is coming next week. Before leaving he gave both maids some money as a gift as he was happy with how his hair had improved and almost no itcing. The maids were happy and me too to hear it. The maids bought gajras and combs and bangles and oil too with it. They even bought a red ribbon and when I asked why, they said its a surprise for my brother when gets back. They would not tell me and said wait for next oiling session with him. I wonder what the surprise is. Did aunty have a long and heavy oiling session with you after a month. Wow you got a whole jewelery set, what did aunty say after she put everything on for you. My oiling sessions with maids are going good. We even put castor oil with coconut oil yesstrerday. They said we will have a heavy oiling session once my brother co es back and will invite their 2 friends too. Any news of gajra girl and talk to aunty of finding a maid for you. Please write soon MNT, not too late.
2014-05-25
#69
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hi MNT nice to hear from you. I am glad to know your nose has healed up. Do you wear the nath all the time?. What did the maids say when they first saw it.?. How long has aunt and maids gone to native. This is why you need to keep a maid for yourself who can help you with oiling and licecombing. Have you started to look for one. I told my maids about your nath,they were surprised and started smiling. Its good to know the gajra girl came to your house and tied gajra. Does she have long hair and is it oiled. Maybe she can oil your hair if you ask her. My brothers ritual is going fine. Every saturday he joins us for oiling. The maids take good care of him. Last week one of the maids told him to oil everyday and not only weekend. He said only before bedtime and not during day as he is out. She was happy to hear that, so now he gets his hair oiled every night by the maids after they comb and oil their hair. Last Saturday 2 of maids friends from a neighboring house came to our house for oiling session we were 5 of us. They had longthick hair too. It was a good oiling g session, and then my brother came and was surprised to see so many of us. The maids followed their routine and even their friends helped. Are you still using shalimar oil. P!ease write soon in detail aboutt oiling session.
2014-06-15
#70
Name: MNT Subject: contd
Hi longhairlady
how r u.. could not write as was on trip to native again. just came 3 days back.
i do not wear nath all the time, only wear it when i am at home. yesterday went to a imitation jewellary exibition and bought a set of ornaments. was not aware what it contained along with nosering and earrings so i showed it to aunt. she asked me to come today afternoon during my oiling and licecombing session. so today morning i decided to buy gajras went to aunt in afternoon. enjoyed her oiling after almost a month. she asked me to hand over the jewelry set to her which i did. she opened it and asked me if i want to try. i said yes. then she combed my hair and kept center partition and tied a single plait on back. i asked her why did she do the partition. she told me its my maang. i didnt understand but kept quite and she tied the bunch of gajras in my plait. then she took the nosering and earrings and asked me to wear. i did that. then i asked her what the other ornaments were. she said it was nosering chain and maang tika. she told she would make me wear that. i noded my head. i closed my eyes and she took some time to finish tying it. i opened my eyes and felt the nosechain and maang tika. she asked me to go and see myself in mirror. i went home and went in front of mirror. was astonized to see a chain connecting my earring and nose ring and maang tika in the partition of my forehead. somehow was feeling okward but i did not remove it. it was the first time i had kept maang on my hairstyle.
good to know your brother is oiling everyday. do he still have lice. i use shalimar oil.
2014-05-11
#71
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hello MNT hope you are feeling better now. Sorry could not write for long time, my computer had a problem so had to be fixed and I was also away for sometime. My brother' s oiling session went very well. Like I said before my maid sister came for a day and she agreed to help out. So on Saturday morning she came and met us all. She told me she will talk to my brother, so after breakfast she went to my brothers room and started combing her hair, and she asked him about his studies and general stuff, she had really long and thick hair. Then she noticed my brother itching his hair a lot, so she said why don' t you oil your hair, it will help you. He said doesn' t like it. So then she told him that guys lose their hair faster if they have lice and don' t oil it. That got my brother thinking,so be asked a lot of questions and she answered them all. In the end she said we girls are having a oiling session in the afternoon and if you want can join us. My brother said he will think about it and he had worried look on his face. Around 2 in the afternoon we all sat for oiling session watching TV. My brotber joined us to watch tv a bit later. The maids sister oiled all our hair heavily and then the maids oiled hers. She said to keep our hair open and she will tie a bun later. Then she looked at my brother and said if you don' t want to lose your hair then join us for oiling session. My brother was okay I will try it for once. Both the maids were happy to hear that. So my maids sister told one of the maids to warm up the coconut oil and get a bowl a d castor oil too. She told my brother to wear a ganji so he went and put on one. Both the maids then made him sit in front of the maids sister. They both had licecombs in their hand. She took the warm oil and poured the bowl on his hair. All the maids massaged his hair and one of them massage his face as the oil dripped. After 20 mins they licecombed him and found like 6 lices. The sister then snowed it to him and said if you don' t treat your hair right you will lose all your hair. The maids were very happy to be oiling him. All 3 of them took turns in oiling and licecombing him. Castor oil was used too layer with coconut oil. In the end the maids combed his hair all the way back and it was shining. Then the maids sister ties all our hair in bun on the top of our head. She then told my brother not to do anything as after dinner she will check his hair again. He said okay. Then after dinner the maids were again combing their hair and then my brother was called and made to sit down. She checked his hair again and oiled it more, both the other maids took turns too. She told him to ha e oiling session with the maids every weekend to treat his lice problem. And he agreed both the maids were happy to hear it and said they will take extra care of him. By the wayduri g our oiling session we spoke of you to the sister she was really happy to know how much care you take of your hair. My maids are asking me if you found a long haired maid for your self. Please do reply in detail of your nose peiercing and oiling sessions. Did you get massage from maids and found a maid. Please reply soon MNT
2014-05-25
#72
Name: MNT Subject: contd
Hi.. longhairlady
sorry could not write for long. was busy. yes i am feeling better now. my nose has healed. started wearing nath when am indoor. but the hole is big and visible now even when not wearing nath. but still am enjoying wearing this big nath.
that day during oiling and licecombing session a lady came and sat near aunt. i asked aunt who she was. aunt told she is the one who will be piersing my nose and ears. i was very upset. soon the session was over and maids asked me to give the gajras i had bought. i told them just to tie plait and will wear gajras afterwards. but aunt told me i should wear it now itself. so i gave the packet of 12 gajras to the maids and they hanged it round my plait. the lady was just looking at me. after that we all went to my home and she asked aunt about piercing. aunt asked me about my decision. i said i want her to decide. she asked me to take a call. i was confused. i said i will have a toss. the toss decided my nose to be punchered. and then aunt asked me about ears. i told i will go for 2 in each ear. aunt told for 3. i said ok. first ears were piersed and then that lady asked the maids to hold my hands tight and she then piersed my nose. was very very painful. tears were rolling from my eyes.
it took around twelve days to heal. but now a am enjoying the lovely nath in my nose. its wonderful feeling since its touching my lower lips. i have to hold it upward with one hand while eating with other hand. its very heavy and thats why the hole became big and visible. what do u say??
aunt and maids have been to their native for some days. so i am myself going with the routine of oiling and licecombing even on sat and sundy wearing gajras and veni most of the time. hey today i went to the market to buy gajras. went to the same girl as usual. i just told her to give me 12 gajras. she smiled and asked me why do i always buy so many. i was confused and told her that your gajras are good and fresh. she smiled and said but normally many of them buy 2 or 3 and max 6 but u buy 12 always, for wo all do you buy. i was nervous but told her that, its is for a single person. she asked for whom. i smiled and left. just went few steps and came back and asked her by what time she will finish selling all. she told in an hour. so i gave her 12 gajras back and gave my address to her and told her to come with this gajras after she has done with her work and herself tie that 12 gajras in that persons hair. she said ok. i went home and started with my routine of oiling and licecombing. suddenly the door bell rang. i opened it and found the gajra girl. called her inside. asked her to sit on the chair and continued with licecombing. she asked me if i have lice. i smiled and said yes. i then applied some more oil, combed my hair and tied a single plait. i asked her if she will have tea. she said no and took out the 12 gajras and told me to call the one who she is suppose to tie in her hair. i went near her and sat down facing my back to her. she understood and started laughing. then she tied all the gajras in my plait. i stood up and told her that now she knows for whom i buy gajras from her. she smiled and asked me why i love to wear so many. i said i love to wear a bunch. on that she took out a bunch which was unsold and asked me if she could add few more in my hair. i said i would love to. she then tied that bunch in my plait. i thanked her and saw myself in the mirror. a huge bunch of gajras in my hair. she told me only a south indian bride wears that much during marriage. is it so?? then she left.
what about your brother. is the ritual going smoothly.
please write soon.
2014-04-26
#73
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hi MNT
How are you? I think you should buy gajras and a veni. You can tell them to tie it after piercing not before that. I told the maids about the gajra and veni, they were very happy about it. They said now you really need a long hair maid to tale care of you or two like them they laughed. One of my maids sister is coming for a day and my maid said she has very long hair and oils it everyday, she is around forty and big built and will help us with the licecombing. Tell the gajra girl you buy it for yourself. I am sure she will find it funny but like it. Both my maids are looking forward to licecombing, let me know how your goes, do let me know in detail. Write soon MNT
2014-05-02
#74
Name: MNT Subject: contd..
Dear longhairlady
sorry was not able to write because of pain in my nostril. on saturday after licecombing my ears and nose were pierced. aunt knew a lady who came and did that. it was very painful. but atlast its done. the lady told me to keep the nosering used for piersing in my nose for a week before wearing other. i dont know why. on comg saturday i will remove it an finally wear my nath.
was not able to go out and even buy gajras or veni. just wore ribbons today.
how about your brothers session.?? how did it went?? please write in detal about how it went.??
please write soon
2014-04-25
#75
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hello MNT, I think if you trust aunty very much then let her take care of it. Let me know how your session went. I told the maids about you finding a maid for yourself. The were very happy to hear about it. Its a good idea to take aunty and maids idea to find a maid for you. One of the maids also bought 2 licecombs today, so I guess we are ready for Saturday. I think you should tell the gajra girl you buy it for yourself. What do you think ?. Write soon MNT
2014-04-26
#76
Name: MNT Subject: contd
Dear Longhairlady
Thanks for writing so soon. yes i have left every thing on aunt, let her do what she thinks ok. i wanted to ask you something, should i buy gajras tomorrow since aunt or maids will make me wear that after the session and the person will be comming for my piercing and what he will think.
so you people talk a lot and enjoy oiling session. did you told maids about me wearing gajras and veni. good that maids have bought licecombs, i think you all should be very comfertable in making your brother to cooperate with you all.
session should be atleast for an hour and half. do oiling after every 30 mins.
if the gajra selling girl ask me for whom i purchase this gajras and venis i can tell her. but i will feal a bit shy to tell her. but she is a nice girl, i only buy from her.
please write soon.
2014-04-24
#77
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hello MNT Thanks for writing soon, yes I like the oiling sessions everyday now. I like the massage they do too. I hope in your next oiling session you don' t forget to ask the maids to massage you. I have not told the maids yet about the gajra and veni, I will now since you have no problem with that. The reason they gave me for you to have a maid is that its difficult to lice comb by yourself, oiling is not much of a problem. A maid who takes goodcare of her own hair and oils its everyday will take good care of your hair too. After u wrote about your suggestions I spoke to the the maids. We decided to go ahead with licecombing this Saturday. The maids have been talking a out lice to him every time they see him itching his head. They suggested forceful licecombing on Saturday. Advise me how we should go about it. I think you should pierce 3 hole in both ears. I have seenbous with 2 pierced holes in the ears. I am sure the earrings will look good. I thought about the nose piercing and my advice to you is that since your really desire to wear the nath, go and do it. As long it makes you happy do it. Good to know you got to wear the gajrsa again, does the gajra girl know you buy them for yourself. Please write soon waiting for your advice, in detail if you can thanks MNT
2014-04-25
#78
Name: MNT Subject: Contd
Dear Longhairlady
my oiling and licecombing session with maids and aunt will be tomw saturday. will talk to maids and aunt for finding a good maid for me.
as for your brother, i think ask him if he is ready for the session or otherwise all three of you force him to sit before you. then go ahead with it. i think he will be a bit unhappy for sometime but will enjoy later.
after my session tomorrow aunt had called that person for my piercings. i have not thought of nose piercing till now but have left every thing on aunt. i will just obey whatever aunt instruct that person. what do you think.??
no i have not told that gajra selling girl that i buy it for myself. eventoday i bought a dozen from her.
please write soon.
2014-04-23
#79
Name: longhairlady Subject: Contd
Hello MNT, Hope your trip to native was good. Since you did not write back for so long I knew you had gone to native. I am happy to get my hair oiled everyday. The maids really take good care of my hair. Once while oiling my hair I told them about you that as a guy how much care you take of your hair. They were really impressed and even said that you should keep a maid with long hair who would oil your hair everyday instead of you doing it by yourself. Thanks for your advice about my brother, one of the maids last week even bought a big bottle of shalimar coconut oil and castor oil and said this will be used for his licecombing, I told the maids to wait until I heard from you. My maids have been oiling their hair and mine too in the living room instead of the balcony as he watch' s TV and can see us. I actually told them that he like long hair so they have been keeping their hair open or tying it loose heavily oiled. Please advise to me how the maids can start talking to him. Ask aunty maids if you canfor suggestion. I think this Saturday would be a good day for licecombing for him.
About your nath I feel bad that aunty could not get a clip on. I suggest you get your ears pierced first. Try the earinga and see how it looks. Give me some time to think about nose piercing. How are the maids, any oiling session with them this week. Please write soon soon MNT happy you at back
2014-04-23
#80
Name: MNT Subject: Contd
Dear Longhairlady
Thanks for writing so soon. nice to hear that you now enjoy oiling everyday and maids are also happy with that and they really take good care of your hair. nice to hear that they were impressed when you talked about me. maybe i would think of their suggestion and keep a maid in future. did you also told them that i even love to decorate my hairs by wearing gajras and veni??
you should have started oiling and licecombing your brothers hair bynow since its long time and lice must have really grown in plenty by now.
i will advice you that when you people sit for oiling in hall when he is watching tv, you can discuss about benifit of oiling among youself. se to it if he listens. also discuss about bad effects of lice. then all of you together call him and talk to him. saturday will be good to start with. or else you can even go behind him quitly when he is watching tv and pour lot of oil in his hair. then convince him for licecombing and after few strokes show him all the lice you have cought. in this way he will be very scared to see somany lice and then will cooperate with you for oiling and licecombing.
i did not had any oiling session with aunt or maids since i returned from native. aunt had told me on saturday she and maids will do oiling and licecombing after that she had called that person to pierce my ears. i am very confused about nosepiercing but also very keen to wear my new
nath. hey please suggest me how many piercing should i go for in each ear.
today after somany days i am enjoying the bunch of gajras in my hair. bought 12 in the morning. the gajra selling girl was also happy to see me after so many days and asked me where i was for somany days. i told her i went to native. tomorrow planning to wear veni.
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