Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

Hi!
I' m having a 2yr 11month daughter. Her hair is very soft and curly hair. So far we have never cut her hair but my mom says that it is mandatory for a girl to get her headshaved in a religious place at least once in a life time. More over she wants to shave our daughters head many more times so as to promote better hair growth. Is it true that hair grows better and thicker after headshave?
Please comment and help us out.. neither me and nor my wife are much interested in shaving her head but if it is good for our daughter then we are ready to proceed, please advice us and help us out. Pooja replied. Hi Ayush please do one thing please speak to your wife on this and make her understand that if visiting that place will not harm your kid and as well your mother will also be happy to have you guys visit the same place. Pinky replied. Hello my friend i can understand your problem one side is your mother and the other side is your wife so choosing one is the most difficult task, please think twice before you take any decision as i am sure its very difficult to handle it. Pari replied. Hello dear please think twice if you are not going then your mother will not like it, i think you should go to the place for her happiness and it will not harm you guys also as your kid is also small and having the head shaven done would be easy. Laxmi replied. Hello my friend based on your post i feel you are in between your wife and your mother as your wife is not willing to go and your mother is wanting to go, what a mess and here if you follow anyone the other is bond to be angry. Kiran replied. Hello my friend i think you should go and take your mother also as she is a big believer of the place and one must take her and your family there, please have a visit and go for the head shaven done from there. Kinjal replied. Hello dear please do not think so much as its not a big deal and you should take this as positive as at least you have some senior person who can guide you properly, must say that you are very lucky so please respect the same. Kavita replied. Hi Ayush please do not panic and decide what you want and your wife as its your internal matter and it should be solved by you guys itself, please make sure what you guys want and yes for the respect of your mother you guys can surely go there. Karuna replied. Hello dear please do not take me wrong but why you want to go to some religious place to have the head shaven done as this will not help in anything and one must avoid visiting such places if they are well educated nothing else. Kamini replied. According to me you should not go to such places as now a days these are just money making places and nothing else as people have old belief and one should ignore such things please explain your mother in law as this is really sad. Kajal replied. Hi dear i think you should respect your mother in law and should go to the religious place where she is saying, also do not panic as they will not harm your daughters hair growth at all, please relax and follow the instructions. Chinu replied. Hi dear i think you are thinking so much and this is the reason why you are unable to take any decision the better option is stop thinking so much and get yourself out of it and just get the head shaven done as nothing will go wrong. Chinto replied. Hello friend please suggest me also as my son is two years old and recently my friend had gone to this religious place and done the head shave of his daughter from then my wife is also wanting the same for our son. Chintan replied. Hi Ayush please have your own decision on this as she is your daughter and if your mother is asking you to do this then there is no harm at all please do not panic so much and look forward and think positive. Chinmay replied. Are you serious and why are you so tensed about the matter as this is no issue and should not worry so much please do one thing get your daughters head shaved and see the reaction on it and i am sure you will not regret. Chetan replied. Hi there please do not panic and take your decision wisely as this is a small issue which should be taken care of, if you are finding it difficult to solve it so please do one thing speak to your mother on this. Mink replied. Hi there please tell what you did as even i am confused whether to do or not because even my in laws are behind me to have the head shaven done but then i am not ready for it so please suggest me what to do. Mini replied. Hi there its a regular process for every indian family and you should not think so much if your mother is asking you to do something then you should obey her and get it done as she will not ask you to do something which is wrong. Manu replied. Hi Ayush my friend you are taking undue tension and getting worried so please be sure what you want if you are not comfortable with it then just dont go for it nothing to worry so much and yes it your decision after all. Minakshi replied. Hi Ayush it happens with every parents and this is nothing to worry as nothing will go wrong or nothing will harm your daughter so just relax and be calm, if possible do not take tension on this matter. Manisha replied. Hi dear why are you so worried about it as this is just a normal head shave and nothing else, i think so you should go ahead without any pressure and get it done please do not take so much tension about it.