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Hi we are form a orthodox Brahman family.My father has decided to do my brother' s Upanayanam very soon(15 years old).He is planning to do it traditionally.I have read that it involves shaving and piercing a hole in the boy' s ear.Is it like that?I will be very interested if it is in such a way.....:P(because he used pull my rings while fighting...:LOL!!!! NOW I CAN RETURN IT!!!:P just joking) My mother and I asked him to come in female dress many times.But he hates it.He is my twin brother(he is elder). He never loves to wear such the female dress? He is even afraid of needles, so he even doesn' t go to hospitals hehe for medicines...:D. But when it is done in the traditional manner shouldn' t we make holes in the ear?Is the nose piercing necessary?? Will the piercing hurt him a lot? I don' t remember mine. All i know is that nose piercing is of terrible pain.It was unfordable for me. What all ornaments should he wear? Is it necessary that he should lengthen his hair?He is not having any facial hairs.But he already have hair up to the shoulder.Because my father did not allow him to cut since last 1 year.Is it necessary that he should wear girls dress? I asked my father secretly because now he is having vacation.At least at home.He said OK...:D.My mother also loves it.How can i make him agree to pierce his ear' s before the ceremony.????
I don' t know which type of ear ring will be good for him?? I don' t think he will put on the larger jimmikka and the rest.I am sure he will throw away those things.I have many sets of heavy rings.I would like him to put those stuffs.But how??How to make him put on my dress?. This is the best time that i can play around him..:P
So i have a few doubts: how long should he wear the rings.For how much time should he keep the bald hair??Is there any role for me, being the younger one? Is it necessary to get a hole in the nose also??Will it hurt him much??How long will he have the pain?? Ankita replied. When will people come out of the orthodox mind its really sad to hear all this my good wishes are with you. Saloni replied. What is wrong with people now a days. I guess you should think what you want .. Piercing is just about how much pain one can bear . even in olden days people used to pierce. Try it if you want

All the best Anjaly replied. i dont know why these boys are like this???No one wants to make a hole in their own ear?But wont you do it to a girl??? In the olden days a 50 years back every one will have pierced ear???Then why should we force to do it??For my brother also we had to really force him physically do it.It just deals with the pain bearing capacity...it just tests it.....But when we do it every women will have an idea to see the child as girl.That is it..nothing other than that... divya replied. @kaushik,suddep
you boys do not understand what we are trying to do.ofcourse in upanayanam only the headshave of the boy and his ear piercing is enough,but we girls would like to have some naughty fun,hence we nose pierce the boy,make him wear girls clothes etc.only if you are a girl you can understand this,you boys look cute and cuddly if you are feminised Kaushik replied. You are not right .... because I also Pierced my both ear during upnayanam but as per I Know no nose piercing needed for it. Earring needed only for healing the hole on the ear. this is a traditional program not male to female transformation program. I personally hate ear piercing but my mother insist to do ear piercing. I only wear gold hoop earring once in a month for one day to keep the hole alive otherwise the hole will close. mundan kumar replied. hi anjaly, i think u dont love ur brother...sory!! Anjaly replied. So what about the locks?
is it also permanent??
So it will be a kinda idea to solder...but it is the gimikki that will create the problem...coz is a boy nah!!...:P i really dont know what is soldering...i think it is the melting of the metal??? is it...:D hehehe LOL...but that will surely be cruel....But we girls went through this all nah!!?? :P
\" WHY SHOULD BOYS HAVE ALL THE FUN!!!????\" ..hehehe...:D so i think when you melt the gold it will surely cause a burn in the hole.Is it??..kool but in a confusion...:( sandhya sarkar replied. its going to be nice to perform the sacred thread ceremony for your brother,being a twin brother i am sure there must be a lot of sibling rivalry,and this ceremony will give you a nice opportunity to get back at him.even i am from a brahmin family and my younger brother went through this.since our family is not very conservative,only his ears were pierced and that too because i insisted on it and forced my parents to do get his ears pierced.unfortunately my brothers head was not shaved,even though i wanted him to be bald so that i could tease him ( i am a mean big sister :P).nose piercing is not compulsory but if you want to see him in pain,then pierce his nose,it also kinda looks cute.