Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

I am from Bangalore. My hair is very long (touches my knees), thick and very healthy. I have been married for 2years. I had a baby few months back. My mother in law is now saying that I have to offer my hair (all of it, shave)to Tirumala god when my sons tonsure will take place. she says she did it too for my husband. My husband is also forcing me to go for tonsure. I like my hair and can not imagine myself with out it. help me... Anjali Sh replied. well
i tell for so many years you had a long hair an after all you are doing it for your god for your family

and i think nothing important than your family.

i am sure your mother in law also must had long hair before she tonsured so she has gone through it and she really feels for

even she did it for your family

so go for it

and i tell u even i had long hair up to the waist and to have shaved as a offering to the god and i tell i wasnt nervous at all because before i was married i had long hair and family members wouldnt let cut or even trim then
so i was very happy when shaved it for my family for my self and i did cause i wanted a bobcut.

whenever i want to cut my hair and family doesnt allowme i somehow ask husband to go to tirumala so i cant cut it there and no one can object and i shave once a year

so do it and reply me back i will guide u dont listen other pppl

Anjali ema replied. i truly feel for you. you shouldn't be listening to that jealous MIL of yours.
also, you should have a talk with your husband and stand firmly on what you believe in. don't let others run your life. shaving hair especailly beautiful long hair!!! thats insane.
good luck, sarita replied. it is obvious that your MIL is jealous about your hair. she wants to get it shaved, in the name of god. dont accept it... jayshree replied. suguna, it is not necessary that what ur MIL did, u hv to do. she must hv taken MANAT. pl dont do this. god has blessed u with such a beautiful n long hair. be stubborn.