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2003-09-02
Name: Megha



Hi all of you,
There is a sad news from my side ..i was due with my first baby on 1st April..but sadly i miscarried on Saturday(30th Aug) in my 9th week.Never thought it could happen to us.

Anyway all of you do take good care...Don't take any kind of chances during your first trimester.
Wish you all good luck.

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2003-09-04
#1
Anonymous Name: Megha
Subject:  Thanks!



Dear Tina, Swati, Tanvi, Sowdha, Jenn, Maitrali, Mansi and Mini,
Thanks a lot for your words of support and encouragement. I had been feeling very lonely and depressed but now i feel i have friends who do care for me :).

I have a question for those of you who have had this bad experience earlier:
What special precations or extra care did you take when you got pregnant the next time?

Maitrali,
I did not do anything out of the normal that day..infact the doctor said the misacrriage might have happened about 2 weeks back itself.
However i would suggest a few things for the first 20 weeks (as told by elders):
- Don't lift anything even slightly heavy that you think puts pressure on your tummy.
- Don't stress yourself out on any simple work too ..even climbing stairs
-Don't stay out a lot in the sun.
- Try not to travel a lot
-Talk to your doctor if you are getting any white-pinkish discharge
Don't worry..all will be fine..just take good care of yourself.

love
Megha
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2003-09-04
#2
Anonymous Name: maitrali
Subject:  sorry



I am sorry to here your loss. Dear Megha can u please tell me why this happned? Did u did something different on that day? What Doctor said about that? Please tell us so we can take care of ours.
And donnt worry take care and try again.
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2003-09-03
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Anonymous Name: TANVI
Subject:  sorry



Megha,
So sorry to hear the news. Please take care of yourself and know that your actions did not cause this. I too eperienced this and it is so hard but you have to be good to yourself.

My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Tanvi
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2003-09-03
#4
Anonymous Name: jenn
Subject:  dont worry



Iam very sorry to hear your news. i can understand how you are feeling. but dont worry, god is great, just have faith and everything is going to be fine. its just not your fault as one does not have a hold on nature. take care of yourself .
Jenn
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2003-09-03
#5
Anonymous Name: Mansi
Subject:  Take care



Dear Megha,

Sorry to hear the news. Please dont worry dear... its not your fault. Please take good care of your health.

luv,
Mansi
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2003-09-02
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Anonymous Name: sowdha
Subject:  very sorry



hi megha,
really very sorry to hesr about the news, please take of ur health, dont worry god does not give and take away anything without any purpose, i will take ur advice of taking care in the first trimester. Take lot of care.
sowdha
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2003-09-02
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Anonymous Name: Swati
Subject:  I am so sorry



Hi Megha ,
I was so sad to hear that news .
I wud pray God to give u strength.There are things on which we dont have any control, Try again sometime later everything will be fine.
take care
S
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2003-09-02
#8
Anonymous Name: mini
Subject:  Don't worry



Dear megha,
don't worry about your miscarriage..i know how you feel as i too experienced the same in april 2002.i was in my 12th week and in my ultrasound found that the fetus growth was there only till 8 weeks..then i had a D&C..i thought that it was the end of my life..but i am pregnant again now in the 9th week..so don't worry, be happy so that you can plan again after 2 months..
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2003-09-02
#9
Anonymous Name: Tina
Subject:  sorry



Dear Megha very sorry to hear the sad news.
Please dont feel bad and dont worry dear. its not your fault.

take care of ur health.
tina
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