Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

Hello everyone,
I have daughter ..she z lil bit dark than me n my hubby..so is there any way to make her fair...i alrady tried besan remedy and it seemed like she has alrgy of besan and turmeric.is there any other remedy i can use ..like honey ..lemon..or anything.
she is going to be 8 month old soon..i m hoping for some miracle...pls help me guys Karuna replied. I' m sorry that u' ve got such harsh responses for ur query. Well I can understand that all mothers want their babies to be cute & beautiful though not very hard on it.As a remedy I can suggest u take some raw milk and soak 1-2 bread pieces of bread after cutting the harsh corners. Let it soak for abt 10 min. so that it' s a very smooth & consistent paste. Then apply to ur baby' s skin all over, just before bathing. Massage it very lightly for abt 2-3 mins followed by a bath with lukewarm water.

Raw milk otherwise also is a complexion lightening agent. It can be used daily for bathing ur baby, followed by lukewarm water. U don' t even need to use soaps in some cases worriedmom replied. WHOH..OH GUYS Hold on...First i want to tell you all(hey,rajm and verne)dat I love my baby a lot...i dont even leave her for sec outof my sight.
Yes i agree dat i did wrong thing dat applied besan on her but it was' nt my dicisoin..i m first time mom ..so intially i didnt know anything about dis homeremedy...so i dint even try any..but when my MIL came to US to live with us.she started to tell me use this n that..n if any one of u have MIL.than u know better than me what happens if we dont agree.so datz what happened becoz of besn..after dat i didnt do anynew thing on my baby...but my MIL Still asking me to do somthing..she thinks dat my babyz going to be dark in comlpexion..although i dont care...but for her sek..i was thinking if someone could give me good advice..but all i got is harsh words..FOSTER PARENT... SELFISH.. IRRESPOSIBLE MOTHER.I am already alone here..nobodys to help me or guide me so i was looking for someone who could tell me right or wrong things...And yes in India they do use besan n haldi on babies..since second day of birth..i tried once..but i didnt want to harm my baby..it was just dat i didnt know about the allergys or result and i think it happens wid everybody becoz nobody z perfect.
I hope that you guys will understan my situation..thakx for your time n faith for my baby..
rajm replied. the only miracle i hope that happens to your baby, if you keep doing such things to her, is FOSTER PARENTS!! rajm replied. haldi plus besan on a 8 month old baby!!!!
that is just Nasty!!!!!
Might i add that is traumatic too!
I am actually amazed and stunned at what they do to babies in india, especially after they add cooking ingredients to their faces!! verne replied. me say this in a very soft way, you are a very selfish, irresponsible and very degrading mother!
How can you think of applying such rubbish on your baby' s face who isnt even a year old? You didnt birth her for beauty purposes, did you? do you judge your baby on skin colour?
What did you think using besan and turmeric on such young skin? Dont u dare use honey or lemon on your young one' s skin, its traumatic.
I trully pity your baby.
plastic surgery doesnt make one fair, and fairness is not a eligibility to become a good human being, STOP RACISM and STOP DISCRIMINATION ON THE BASIS OF COLOUR. h replied. you are worried about your baby' s color??think about people who struggle to have baby or handicaptured chiild.god has given wonderfull gift to you.accept as it is..it is not possible to change original color unless you want to do plastic surgery.i know so many dark color people who are very good looking having good features.be happy for what you have.