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Are you one of those individuals who knows or \" suspects\" that you harbour some negative or bad memories but has trouble remembering them? Often this sense suggests that such memories are associated with some pretty harsh negative feelings that are likely too painful for one to be consciously aware of. So if you can' t remember them where do they go and why?
The mind has an interesting built mechanism which tends to handle the memories of very negative or bad experiences that, if carried in one' s conscious awareness, would invariably incapacitate them from functioning. So based on the fear of de-compensating the mind tends to bury such negative memories in the subconscious mind i.e. it makes them \" un\" conscious. Is this a good thing or not?
Well based on the long held belief that once an experience is had it gets stored permanently in memory most individuals would likely say that, yes, this is a good thing. This conclusion is however limited by having available other options by which to \" process\" the bad memory.
Now here let me say that I am totally aware of the various \" therapies\" out there available to help individuals address such memories.
Most of these tend to attenuate the negative feelings associated with the event so that they are more tolerable. For many individuals this may be all that they desire. The main problem is that in spite of attenuating the feelings they do not eliminate the negatively charged memory from the mind and/or body.
In other words the kernel of the memory remains intact as a holographic representation of the original event. This \" kernel\" has the interesting property that it can regenerate all of the negative feelings over and over again over time. In other words, in my experience it can \" undo\" all of that therapy in time.
It has also been my experience working with a new subconscious mind technique that literally challenges the belief that the event happened at all it is possible to completely extract the kernel of the memory from the mind and body. This leaves an individual feeling completely free of the event along with the strange but empowering experience that it never took place.
If you’d like to learn more about erasing negatively charged memories . Kajal replied. Hi emilia, this is one problem which comes in everyones life some or the other day. You need to be very strong and try to face all the problems. Try to go out and spend some time yourself. Ashna replied. People usually get depressed when their business is not doing well and they are always under tremendous stress about it. What they do not understand is that the reason they are not able to do well is because they are unhappy. No Name replied. One must always concentrate and focus on the good thing in life. It is the same with good and bad memories. You should focus on the good memories you have and try to ignore the bad one. Do not even think about them. rubi replied. hi, eveyone has good memory there is jut need to polish our memory, so every person remember anything easily and forget easil. so its a good information No Name replied. Hello every one,
Every body in this world was blessed by great gift by god that is forgetness.SO easily they will forget about the issue and it will be helpful for all the people also.I wish all will leave bad from their life. No Name replied. Hello Emilia Kelly,
I have read the article which you have posted it is quite interesting and lots of method are their to remove bad ideas from the mind but even though you have given various solutions for it. Thank you for your kind information. Anu replied. Hello Kelly,
There are many ways to get rid of bad ideas, but even though you ave given different solutions for removal of those ideas. Thank you for your views and let all the people put it into practice. raj replied. how to wash off such negative memories? like after losing someone who is very close and that person's death affect your mind so when i come close to my other closer one fear of losing them come in mind. how to tackle that? Ritesh Hari replied. Interesting thread to chance upon. Made me think! Havent had much of a chance to think about it previously though.