Hi, I am Sangeeta, right now in doha, Qatar, in the month of may 06 i have miscarriage in my fourth month of pergenany, i was very upset about the same ... but after reading all the messages on the message board i felt so bad for people you lose there baby at the last stage of delivery. i pray god not to punish women in such a way.
In the month of october i have udergone two test adviced by doctere 1.) HSG and 2) blood test -
as per doctor my HSG is normal but blood have three negative results. for which i am very much wrried of. That time i was in india and now i am in doha i have to change the doc. blood report shows 1) ANA Antinuclear Antibody Positive +3
2) Lupus anticoagulant - 45.10 sec
3) CMV LgG - Positive 9.92
as doctor suggested that i have to be on heparin injections and still he is not sure that i will have my baby at lesast this time.

i am very scared to loose my baby this time i will get mad if something happen...

please as you have helped so many women please do help me and suggest me

Thanks
Sangeeta Sangeeta replied. Hi Everyone,

I have gone to two doctors here in doha, just for two opinion, but now i am very much confused... as you know my blood report shows ANA positive +3, but one of the doctor does not agree to the same. He says the virus can be their tha time not now ... and he asked me to go and get concieve ... i am confused it should be not that i get conceive and any medication which was suppose to be started befor preganancy doesnt happen. And the other doctor wants be to start Asprin and Dupaston Two months befor i get concieve.

Please help me out.

And can anyone know any doctor whereas i can put my case online and they can guiide me on the same.

Thanks
Sangeeta Aarti replied. Hi Sangeetha,

I am terribly sorry for your loss. All I can is that there is hope. I lost my second baby at the 17th week and now am the mother of another baby after that. There are two websites which I have recommended in my previous posts. One is HYGEIA (pregnancy loss) and a yahoo group about mothers using heparing during pregnancy. I think due to the new changes to the site, IP is not letting me post those urls (no matter how I try!). You could either look up my previous posts in this board or do a search based on the names I have written above.

All my best wishes, Aarti K.Radha replied. Dearest Sangeeta,

I am very sorry for your loss. I do not like having to say this but unfortunately pregnancy & childbirth isn' t without risks. Even in full health a baby is incredibly fragile and any number of things can cause a loss. However let me remind you that your doctors will always do what they can to help you and your baby. And they' ll be able to provide even better care now that they' ve diagnosed a few things that need to be addressed. You' ll be treated as ' high risk' and doctors will induce an early labour should the baby be in any danger. All you can do is hope and pray for the best. It is completely normal to feel a great deal of anxiety during successive pregnancies after a loss but don' t let it get the better of you and ruin what should be a joyous time. Get yourself some good emotional support because I think this is the one area that we all need the most care. And no matter what you will always find a sholder to lean on here... I can' t offer much more than my support and my sincerest prayers for you and your baby.