Hi K. Radha,

My wife Mamta is a regular on the March '07 board.
We read your heart-rending story yesterday. I'm writing this message in support of you and your husband.

To be able to share the pain and grief you guys have gone through requires a lot of courage and conviction.

I feel sorry for some people who have acted like fools and not tried to understand ur feelings. Though its nice to see that there are people who have been a positive influence.

What u feel for ur Ishani is what's the only and the most important thing in this world. If somebody can't feel it, he/she is a big moron.

You are an inspiration for each one of us. Hats off to you! You've cared and loved ur baby like no other Mother or Father would.

For all of us, the spirit of Ishani still lives and will live till eternity.

We wish you and your family the very best.

Our good wishes for Ishani, Stephanie and Sid.

Ajit and Mamta. K.Radha replied. Dearest Ajit & Mamta,

Congratulations on the impending birth of your little one!!! I want to wish you a very happy and healthy pregnancy with a happy ending. I find it touching that you would come to this forum and offer up your support to myself and I know it will also have given others hope too. To me, this should be one of the happiest time of your lives but you're not afraid to invest yourself with the knowledge of loss. I know it is perhaps something you do not personally understand but you've accepted and respected that those who have fist hand knowledge are worthy of the feelings they express... I've learnt that this is a rare attitude! Thank you. Most people hide from such things when they're in your position so for me your post has added meaning and deserves the utmost respect & thanks. I look forward to hearing you've delivered safely and that the only upset you'll know is sleepless nights and dirty nappies/diapers! God bless you both and your little bundle of joy...