Are you planning on having a baby? Have you thought it out properly with your partner? Have you asked yourself why you want to have a baby? jamaal replied. having a baby is easy but taking care is the reall tough part.me and my wife had our first daughter when i was 23 and she was 21... we just wanted a baby so badly back then, it was 13 years ago... but i think it was the best decision of my life. luckily we didn' t mess up anything, and i was also earning enuff... we managed to give her everything. but lol, we also decided we didn' t want another child... one brought enough chaos! Renee DSouza replied. hi every1... i just had a question... am i ready to have a child??? my husband is insisting but i feel i am 2 young... i am 24 and my career is great and i luv the times i spend with my dearest hubby... he loooooooves children but i just want to spend more time with him... but how to tell him this??? having a baby will be pure chaos... but i like babies too, i want one of my own... question is, are we both ready for a baby? Amit replied. I can' t help but laugh at all those people who rush having a baby and then regret it. I know some very immature couples who are struggling to save both marriage and baby. Though I suppose it is no laughing matter for them... but then, they really should plan things, especially the hectic lifestyle that takes over once they have a baby! Come on, guys, why have a baby when you' re not ready?