Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

Hi Radha,

Read ur msg.You were really mistaken, I have not agreed for the headshave happily.It is only out of my situation I accepted it and enjoy growing hair after 4 yrs.And to inform u I am turning into gundu tomorrow an from monday i´ ll in my daily routine to college with clean shaved shining gundu with any cover.I´ ll share my experience of getting gundu after it is done.

Bye for now

Dear Spandana
It is heartening to note that you are one determined young lady with a clear goal. Congratulations to you on your determination and wish you the best in your studies.
Be as determined and HAPPY in going around with a nice smooth gundu once in 10 days as you are in pursuing engineering. From the moment of the first scrape on your head, feel proud and happy and never embarrassed about the bald head.
Have the first gundu at a religious place and subsequent gundu every Sunday in a barber shop. Beauty parlour is too costly and getting it done by your husband may not always be possible. Doing it yourself is dangerous and certainly not as exciting as getting it done by somebody else.
Complete your engineering being a baldi and collect your degree in the convocation also with a fresh gundu. But a lot of time is there for that.
If anybody objects shut their mouth saying ´ this is how I like it´ . Having decided to go ahead with a regular gundu, never complain to others that you are doing this for your husband.
Warn your husband that after going around without hair for nearly four years, you may never feel like growing hair at all.
Wish you a very happy four years of living with a smooth nice shining gundu head.

Hi Radha,

Thanks for ur msg. My hubby wants my head shaved continuously once in 10 days for the pat to be clean shaved and shining.Because he feels that a man cannot love a lady with that appearance for a longer time and lose interest.

And coming to the point of discontinuing my studies, completing my Engineering is my life time goal so that cannot be happened.Now I am myself preparing to face the embarrassment. I feel there is no option.

I need to inform my decision and the day next implement it. I feel its my fate.

If you want studies then accept headshave and continue. If you feel you cannot goto college then you have to stop studying. Its in your hands. Going to college with headshave is a bit uncomfortable in beginning but after a few weeks you get used to it.

So you can continue your studies by having headshave.