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hi saniya..im a frequent reader of this site..i have a prob which i want u 2 help me with..im not fair, sort of medium or even less than that..im married and i know my husband loves fair women..he always asks me 2 improve my complexion somehow...i know home remedies will take time but i dont want my husband 2 lose interest in me..and this is really bothering me very much...i even feel jealous when he admires fair women..
so saniya..pls understand the seriousness of my problem and give me a solution 2 improve my complexion..Is shafair(shehnaz hussain's cream) effective?? pls reply asap saniya replied. dear vidya,
it's really depressing to know hat ur husband is ignoring u just because of ur complexion.a person who really loves u,loves u for what u are and not for what u look like.years later,u may lose all the beauty and attraction of ur external features but ur heart will always remain beautiful and young.i think u should explain this to ur husband as well.fair skin isnt important,what is important is flawless,spotless smooth skin.
make urself the person ur husband will want tolove,NEED to love.care for him a lot.love him a lot.very soon,he will realise that ur inner beauty is what makes u a more pleasant and satisfying person.imagine a fair woman with absolutely no character.do u think her husband will be satisfied with her?u need to tell all this to ur husband as well to make him realise.and please,share ur feelings with him.let him know ur fears and about ur jealousy.if he truly loves u,he will himself admire u for ur inner beauty.
all women get married,including dark ones.but their husbands do not lose interest in them just because of their skin colour.
let's see what u can do to attain a fairer complexion but believe me,the things mentioned above r those which will really help u.
first of all,if ur naturally dark,there is no natural and safe way to get fair.but drinking a lot of lemon juice will help.try drinking warm water+1 tabsp honey+juice of half a lemon first thing in the morning.also,drink half cup of mint water daily.just boil mint leaves in water thoroughly and store that water in the refrigerator.drink half cup of this water daily.
just let me know whether ur naturally fair or dark and ur skin type.i shall try my best to help u in the best possible way.and please,let ur husband know all this and share ur feelings with him.
with best wishes and loadsa luv,
urs,
saniya xoxoxoxox 123 replied. hey why r u being so kiddish. come one ther r so many women out ther who r dark and sucessful in western countries people die to get that tan indians have. i think u need be more happy about it first and how dare husband looks at other women only bcoz they r fair be confident girl remember KAJOL is dark too and dont ur husband like her? its just a mentality and ther is no remedy as such to change ur original colour u can just take care of what god has given u. tell ur husband that u were like that bfore marraiage too so he shud have thought about it then not now and give reasons to peep aournd other women. come on cheer up u r beautiful just tell him that firmly.