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2006-12-29

Name: Hetal Kamdar hi girls

as the time approaching closer i\";m getting more nervous and anxious about baby labor postpartum etc

everyone i meet just talks about how life changes after baby and how hard labor is how tough the recovery could be etc and all these things making me nervous and anxious as if ive made a wrong decesion of having a baby or as if my previous life will never come back
does anyone feel the same way? i want to feel happy and normal i\";m sure there will be lot of things to be happy about as well

please share your views

thanks
hetal

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2006-12-30

Name: PREETI AGARWAL
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Hiii

Hi Hetal,

Even I am feeling the same way...The other day I started crying so badly just because I was sooo very scared of the labour pains..I just dont have that kind of courage I feel...I had actually seen the pain of delivery when my sister had it..Her pains lasted for 36 hrs.!!!! and this fear has imbibed in me and am not able to come out of it.I know its different for different people,but......
May GOD give us all the courage..
Bye
Take Care
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2007 with our li`l bundle of joy :)

Preeti

2006-12-30

Name: Viji
Subject:

Dont worry ...

Hi...

I am Viji.... with a 4yr old daughter Niharika... and now expecting twins... and going in for a second child was more of my insistence but a joint decision ...

I am going thro alll the same feelings as you are and more so bcos of them being twins this time ... On days when Niharika is at her best behaviour it is ok ... but on days when she is ill or just bad tempered and cranky .... i sometimes really get jitters as to whether it was the right thing to do and how on earth am i going to manage three kids when i dont have enough patience for 1.

Dont worry ... we all go thro the same feelings and for God's sake dont start feeling guilty for such thoughts cos it just makes life miserable ... just believe in God and in yourself ... He will give us the strength and patience for everything

2006-12-29

Name: pinki
Subject:

Hi hetal,

I think everybody is feeling the same way.
I am also concerned how wud I recover, wud take care of baby etc etc. how will i manage work n home now.
i hv left everything to GOD. you also take care...
pinki

2006-12-29

Name: nitasha thakur
Subject:

Its quite natural

Hi Hetal,

I guess it is very normal to get all these mixed feelings. I am a second time mom ... my elder one is 4 and a half and I am getting the same feelings. So, it is very normal to have them... U have waited 9 months for your little one to arrive and now when the date is so close .. these feelings are but natural. Life does .. .. it becomes more fulfilling and very soon... you would want to have the second one....

2006-12-30

Name: Hetal
Subject:

thanks!!!!

Thanks a lot girls for sharing your views. makes me feel a lot better. I agree with you all not to feel anxious as it will only makes life misrable.. instead leave it on God and time and be happy.
May God give all of us lot of strength and smooth delivery and recovery..

Stay in touch...

Hetal

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