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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Hello Megha

2003-10-02

Name: sweety Hi Megha,

Sorry for replying you so after so many days.
I really had a very bad time. Now, I am feeling better. I don't know wt happened, I missed my periods. I was really scared because we are not trying so I was sure that I am not pg. I had
some blood tests.....still hormonal problem.
Finally, I got my periods today.

How are you ? I hope you are doing better.
Have you got all your reports?

I am not working because I don't have work permit. I am a student. So, you work?

Sorry for the wrong name in last post. I didn't
pay attention that time. I just typed S and ....

Rest all is gng ok.

Be in touch.
Take Care,
Love
Sweety

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2003-10-07

Name: megha
Subject:

All the best to you! Yeah even i was thinking i won't tell anyone this time atleast until the 4th month..we had told them last time just 2 days before the miscarriage happened.
Take Good care of yourself.
love
Megha

2003-10-07

Name: Megha
Subject:

Come on

Hey Sweety,
Just Cheer up..things will be fine..and i mean it!!
I know you have gone through a tough period and since your due date is approaching all those sad memories just return..and you keep thinking.."what if " and " wish things went the way you wanted them to go"..I know all this because sometimes i go through exactly the same feelings. Then I think of it this way :
Don't waste some precious days by being depressed because it is really of no good to anyone. You have had your share of sorrows and some good times are waiting to come into your life....trust me, you really deserve to pamper yourself and be happy now. By being depressed we are just mistreating ourselves for no fault of ours..even your baby up there wouldn't like to see you sad.

Soon you will be a happy cheerful and superbusy Mom and when you look back back you will wonder why you simply wasted the wonderful and relaxed Honeymoon ;-) time you had with your husband.
Try to divert your mind by watching TV (some good comedy serials come on TV here ) , read novels and magazines and keep yourself busy with your studies.
By the way what subject are you studying ? Is it tough ?
Are you on the east coast of US ? Why don't you plan a short holiday to see fall colors somewhere..like in Vermont or New Hampshire...it will be a good change.We are planning a trip next weekend even though my husband is really busy with his work.
Feel free to write whenever you feel like.
love and hugs and loads of happiness & baby dust
Megha

2003-10-07

Name: sweety
Subject:

Hello

Thank u. I really need your wishes.
I don't know what's happening these days...I am feeling very sad, depressed
& stressed....I don't feel like doing anything. Just want to run away from here. I am thinking of going to India.
I am missing my family too much.

Sorry for boring you

Take Care
Luv
Sweety

2003-10-03

Name: Megha
Subject:

Good luck!!

Hey Sweety,
Thanks for answering my query.What a relief!!
I will definitely pray for you and I'm sure nothing will go wrong this time.So cheer up and be excited:-)

Hey dear, just don't get too obsessed and look at all the other blessings that you have in life, like a good family & husband and lots of other things. Sometimes even i get obsessed and that is when i neglect all other joys in life. Then when i see some people around suffering so much , i feel that my sorrow is nothing compared to theirs and i am blessed in many ways.

We will wait for atleast 6 months, so around march -April next year we might start trying.
So hoping to hear some great news from you in another 2-3 months. By the way ,my doctor had suggested that I should start taking prenatal vitamins and folic acid tablets regularly 2 months before we start trying. You can do that too .
Good luck to you !! Take care and keep posting.
love
Megha

2003-10-03

Name: sweety
Subject:

Thanx Megha

Hello Megha,

Thanx for your wishes and prayers. You know we are waiting so long just to have a safe pregnancy this time & I am sure God is not so cruel to make us cry again. I know, I am so lucky that I have good family, very loving & understanding husband. He is very supportive.

I will soon give you good news....just wait for sometime:)

You didn't tell me about your reports.
Have you checked with ur doctor ?

I haven't stop taking prenatal since I miscarry.

Keep updating
Take Care
Love
Sweety

2003-10-02

Name: Megha
Subject:

Hiiiiiiiii

Hi Sweety,
Good to hear from you after so long.
So how are you now ? I wanted to ask you....how long after you miscarriage did your periods return ?
I have started bleeding again 20 days after my bleeding had stopped. I am hoping it is my periods.
Rest is going on fine. Just trying my best to divert myself from thinking too much about it. I do not work here and am a housewife.
ok then take care and keep writing on and off. Hey when do you plan to start trying to conceive... since i think it would be safe for you to do so now that it has been over 4-5 months. We still have to wait for some time.
love
Megha

2003-10-06

Name: sweety
Subject:

Hello

Hello Megha,

Good to know that everything is fine.
Just wait for some time & give me some good news.

I am not gng to tell this time to my family abt my next pg in first trimester. I told everyone last time. So, waiting for some good news to share with u.

Have a Great Day.
Take Care
lol
Sweety

2003-10-06

Name: Megha
Subject:

Hi Sweety

Just wanted to tell you, the doctor didn't find anything abnormal with my placenta..so test reports are normal.
Rest is fine..You take Care.
love
Megha

2003-10-02

Name: sweety
Subject:

Nice to hear from u

Hello Megha,

I am good...Thanx for asking.I am sure it's ur periods. So, you are lucky that ur body is working fine....Congrats.

What happened in my case was that after D&C's ..I bleeded for 20 days. Then after 10 days I again started bleeding....& that was my periods.

I was very happy that time because
once u get ur periods..u r sure that nothing is wrong with ur body.

You know I wanna to try from next month because it's 7 months now & gng to be 8 months ..in november.

Wish me Good Luck. Just keep me in ur prayers because now a days I am getting obsessed to have a baby.

How much time are you planning to wait?

Baby will dust us all soon.
Keep posting
Love
Sweety

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