I went in for my US last week at 7.5 weeks and they found a heart beat which was slow 70 something. Then I went in yesterday and they found the hb was missing and the baby had died. I would be 9 weeks today.
Anyway the doctor felt I should start bleeding soon and so did not recommend a D & C. Should I opt for a D & C? This wait is killing me. I want to get over this entire deal. It's devastating.
Also the2 times this happened to me it was at 5.5 weeks and 6 weeks. So I got my periods a bit late, and had heavier flow. This time I am scared that the flow will be very heavy and painful. Also not sure what make of these losses. Every time we try we get pregnant, but it ends in a loss. After the 2nd one I was diagnosed with MTHFR and was on extra folic acid, b6, b12, BA, and progesterone this time around. But even that did not help. Will this ever end.

Hope
sk replied. Hi
sorry for u. but don't worry every thing will alright in future.
I had 2 miscarriage before my first baby same thing happend with me.
so 3rd time i select very good doctor...she took 17 blood test that time ..i was on bed rest for 4 month..but in my case progesterone helped me.
so please select good doctor in future pregancy .next time take 3-4 month total bed rest.
Every thing will alright.
TA replied. My heart goes out to you. I just don't know the right words. From what I have read, if you are positive for MTHFR, you can be administered (in addition to extra folate) with a blood thinning medication. Usually it is heparin or its low-molecular weight derivative called lovenox. Can you see a high risk OB or perinatologist for a second opinion.

You can do some internet search and talk to doctors.

I am so touched and teary eyed that you use the name'Hope'. I will definitely pray for you. Hugs!

TA