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I used to have healthy thick hair covering my buttocks Myhusband always wanted me to cut it but I not agree. After 1 year of marriage he told jothishi told we have baby only if i give all my body and head hair.
I was sad but what to do.A young barber came home and made bath and started shaving in wet 9 yards sari with out blouse I did not allow but was helpless forced me.Ifelt shy and bad to sit in front of a stranger all visible, my husband was watching excitedly when barber shaved me and instructing to him.
ButIfelt some very Goodfeeling inside me when he shaved my nape later he put sandle paste.
That night he was very much happy and told I tricked you and he dint go to jothishi. he did because he likes to see female shaving and the feeling of the sandpaper head in bed.Now my hair is 2 inch long SITHA replied. Itis 3 months after my shave . i am now happy i did it. i have 3 inch long hair and he took me barber shop to style it style almost like mens.. very short in back and long in front.he is very happy as i did what he wished.we enjoyed more and what the jothishi told make true geetha replied. dint u get anger on ur husband for having ur whole head shaved like that Krishna replied. hi usha
If he wants you get a you tonsured you should full fill it if you want him to love you.after all its an offering . and he waited 7 years .if scared of barbersYou can be tonsured at the cottages where you are staying. Venkateswara G H is one of them .There many more mini kalyan kattas. If scared ask your husband to do it. Early morning have bath, get your head tonsured with a clippers first and razor later tie the hair into 2 knots, wet .your hair first ask your husband to shave you .After that you can shave his.Both of you have bath and roll the hair length wise and hand over the hair to barber and tip him then you can proceed to the temple. take a vedio of the procedure for memory. enjoy usha replied. I feel sorry for you Sitha.Who gave your hair to the temple?What is whole body shave or sharvanga sharan?My Hus wants me to tonsure for almost 7 years I am not willing. but if he can himself to the whole body shave i am not afraid. can it be done t hat way? i will pay the temple. Every one say you get nice feeling when you shave is it true?My husband is suggesting crew cut after 3 weeks, he is not shaving but going for crew cut to give me company . What is crew cut? ArchanaAnand replied. I had read ur msg what ur husband had done was wrong by asking an unknow person shaving u and asking u to sit with out blouse and all is very vbad.Instuded of that i would have asked u to have a shave u could have done it but any ways i hope ur enjoying the shaved head and also ask u husband also to have a shave that ill be more fun and u can enjoy it...

archana sarathy replied. i have gone through ur message. VEry pity. I think u belong to iyer/iyengar community.
Since u have mentioned that with 9yard saree.
generally brahmin ladies will not shave all hairs
In orthodox family gents will shave sharrvanga shavaram.
I feel that ur hubby have made trick to shave whole body with barber.
In stead why he has not done the same.
any how u feel very goodfeeling while nape shave. very nice.
enjoy the same often with ur hubby must shave urself.
nandini replied. why shoud you agree.if it is jothisi you go offer hair at temple.that time you should guess