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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Hi megha and sweety
2003-09-22
Name: Karuna



Hi Megha and sweety,

I'm sorry to hear about ur losses..I can understand ur pain.

I lost my baby in april, but I still have not come out of it completely. We can never forget that incident but we can come out of it..time heals everything.
After I went through it, I joined many child loss groups in yahoo to get some emotional support from those who can understand my feelings. I used to see everything happened with me asif it was happening again..I used to relive it for a few months, I thought I will get mad, so I decided to join a job after I healed physically. Now, I immerse myself in work so much that I don't get time to think of it..I guess I'm successful to have come out of that grief.
But still I'm anxious about my next pregnancy, we decided to wait till april to try again.

Hope u get to hear that happy news again.

Take care,
Karuna
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2003-10-03
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Anonymous Name: Geetu
Subject:  KARUNA



Hi Karuna,
this is Geetu. u signed my son Aaditya's guestbook.. i was in April board.. remenber? anyway, i wanted to write back to u but didn't have ur email id.. today we all, on june bugs board, remembered u & find out from one
member that u post here.. Tara is also looking for u.. if u get chance do visit june-bugs sometime.. we will be happy to have u there..

big hug for u
Geetu
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2003-10-02
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Anonymous Name: sweety
Subject:  Thanx



Hello Karuna,

Thanx for you support. I can understand
your pain...I lost my baby in april too ..but still it seems it just happened. You know it's very difficult for me because all of my very good friends are pg here. I am just cut off from them. I went to one of my friends baby shower last month. After that I started thinking more. I feel good for all of them ...but you know I ask God..what we did wrong.... I really feel depressed sometimes.

but it's ok...I am really anxious about my next pg. We r waiting....to have a healthy pregnancy next time.

Good Luck.
Be in touch.
Love
Sweety
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2004-04-22
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Anonymous Name: Taryn
Subject:  losing a baby



i can identify with you. i lost my baby in august at 11 weeks and have been trying since then. my friends all around me are getting pregnant and it is sad for me, but i try to put it in perspective and be thankful for my very wonderful husband and a good marriage. i will think good thoughts for you.
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2003-09-22
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Anonymous Name: Megha
Subject:  Thanks !



Hi Karuna,
Thanks for your words of support.
i had read about your baby on the board earlier and my heart really broke...it must have been so painful for you. But I appreciate that you were brave and took the right decision.
Sometimes one needs to just leave it to God , he knows the best for us.Don't worry ,He'll take care of your little angel.
It has been 20 days since i miscarried and haven't yet totally recovered .
I think it is great that you keep yourself busy with work .Was it your first pregnancy ?
Even we plan to wait until March-April next year.So hopefully we should meet next year again but on the expectant moms board:).
Good luck until then! Hope we find happiness in other aspects of life.
Love
Megha
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