hello friends
bk again with a new question coz all u moms really help me big time.. i msoooooooooooooooo thankful to u all.my daughter is now 2 months. and i wud like to know how can i increase my bonding with her.i love her alot and how shall i express and get smiling faces from her....she smiles at times but me being greedy want her smiling always wiht me./.. can anyone help.,.. and one more questions for all u sissss out there
c at home i used to be dressed up simple in my pyjama top and my normal day cream,kajal and thats it... is it possible that when i go out and all of a sudden get ready... like loads of compact powdr eyeliner and a dark lipstick and stuff..will my daughter fail to recognice me...
. will she coz i will look diff..whnever i go for normal chekups wiht her i go simple but still this question is bothering me alot
can anyone tell me???????????
will my daughter cry failing to c me originally as she sees me everyday????????????
thanks Sheetal replied. Congrats on Baby girl! ur baby will recognise you as time passes. Once she becomes 3 month you will get ur first smile which i am sure will prove ur bonding there. I have 8 month old daughter. Trust me she is my world and i am sure i am hers. now that she had started carwling she comes everywhere behind me its real fun. dont worry ur baby is your boold and flesh the bonding starts there itself. All you do for your baby for comforting her is the step towards bonding.May be it is feeding, soothing, giving her a bath changing her clothes etc. she knows that ther is someone who is looking after her and taking immense care its starts from the day u r pregnant and also after birth it continues. Dont worry or think much just enjoy everyday with your baby.
Happy parenting, Take care Hetal replied. :) babies recognise you by the time they are 3-4 months. no matter what you wear, dont matter. what matters is she looks around to hear you. rightnow your baby is 2 months right,at 2 months babies dont c clear object, nor faces unless you are 2cm close ! its until 3 months, that they can see like adults and recognise things,,at 4-5ht month they will be able to recognise you from distance as well.
also about bonding, keep playing things like peekaboo,,when they are 3,,i did that and today also my daughter plays with me..she hides herself behind someone or any pillow and gets my attention..
also, the more body touch you will give, your baby will get more confidence in you,,at each cry, picking her up, soothing her, talking to her with eye contact, smiles and such stuffs..more you practise that, later for anything, your baby will look upon you whether she should go ahead,,,i used to do that, my 11 month daughter, looks at me before she picks something from carpet.i say No and she gives it in my hand..
start teaching your baby yes(nod your head up and down ), no(nod your head left and right),,and she will learn by 5th month..even though she wont understand it, by nodding head, she will enjoy it !
make your life easy by attachment parenting !
take care,njoy motherhood.
Regards