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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Help with miscarriage
2005-11-02
Name: dimpy Verma




I am having a miscarraige right now .Actually when I went for my first visit at 10th week, doctor told me that it is not developing & my hormon test confirmed that.

Now I am having period since last 3 days. But it is just small dots. Uaually I have really heavy bleeding. My doctor said it might be havier this time due to miscarriage. But right now I am just experiencing reverse. I am not sure this is what I will have or yet for me worse to come?

thanks for your advice
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2006-09-25
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Anonymous Name: neha
Subject:  hi



dimpy,
sorry for your loss.
i know how it feels. i have undergone two first trimester ones. hopefully you will find a reason. i know no reason can take away your pain. i have found an outlet at keepingmyfingerscrossed at blogspotdotcom
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2005-12-11
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Anonymous Name: Niharika
Subject:  I too had 3 miss carriage



Hi Dimpy,
last week I had another miss carriage.that was the third one. this time I was very careful. I was almost on the bed rest. Doctor could not find any reason for missed abortion. baby was not growing so i had to terminate it on week 10.. Next thing doctors are advising is to go for genetic counseling. I will try that also..
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2005-11-09
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Anonymous Name: Jessie
Subject:  My experience



Dear Dimpy,

I'm really sorry at your loss. I can truly empathise how you must feel. I too miscarried becus eof the same reasons. For me it started from week 11 as little bleeding (like the kind you describe) and then after a week it went on to heavy bleeding and cramps and then the bleeding subsided. Alltogehter it took 2 weeks for it to stop.

Take care, hang in there.
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2005-11-02
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Anonymous Name: Aarti
Subject:  Better link



Try the following -
http://bbs(.)babycenter(.)com/boards/bbs-preg

Under that there is a link to \";Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and infant loss\";.

That should open up all the discussion groups.

- Aarti
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2005-11-02
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Anonymous Name: Aarti
Subject:  Some pointers



Dimpy,

You must be going through one of the worst times of your life. I have not had a first trimester miscarriage so am unfamiliar with the process. But as a source of help you could visit
http:// www(.)babycenter(.)com/community
There are lots of discussion groups. There will surely be one for those who are having pregnancy losses at the same time as you. You can exchange info about symptoms. It really helped me when I lost my baby at 17 weeks this past August. There was a group created for those of us who lost babies in August 2005. There are some wonderful women who will share and help you through it. Infact there is also a group for those who are trying to conceive after a loss. If you are planning a future baby, it will help too.

I wish you all the strength to tide over this crisis. You will recover one day at a time.

- Aarti
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