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Hello,

My DH has many joint accounts with my MIL......She takes care of his investments.....I have no idea how much she spends and how much she invests and where she invests.......My husband ' s salary is half of my salary.....We presently live at MIL' s home......She is a drama queen......I and DH share my daughters educational expenses half half ....all other expenses are taken care of by DH and MIL.....

I have a financial insecurity that if ever my DH expires I' ll have nothing much in hand monetarily.The same has happened to my MIL....After my FIL expired she didn' t get the property ....As they say History repeats I want to be financially sound....How can I knock sense into my husbands head ,that he has to take policies investments in my name instead of his mother.....
If you have gone through this phase....Please guide me

Sarita replied. Hello dear this is bad to see that you are facing so many issues and problems but then why is your husband is not supporting you in this as what is the problem cant he see that earlier you guys have faced the same issue, please speak to him again and again with him. Seema replied. Hi dear this is really sad to see that you are facing so many issues but then its all destiny and you should not feel bad about the same as its not forever and its only for time being and i am sure you will get the solution for the same very soon. Shikha replied. Hey dear this is not a big issue and i think you should sit with your husband and make him understand the need for the home and explain him what had happen should not repeat with you guys and i think he will understand the same and will get the results. Sujata replied. I think you should not worry at all and you everything will be fine, please do not worry dear as god is great and god will surely help you and bring you out from this problem for sure just be positive and have patience and you will get the due what you are looking for. Suman replied. Hey dear please be calm and relax and start investing money in mutual funds and you can also start with 500/- per month please start doing the same as you will get good benefits after some point of time, please take this seriously and you will get benefits for sure. Anushree replied. Oh my dear this is not going proper and i can see fishy things happening please be very clear with your husband as i feel that he is doing the same purposely and you are been cheated, please be very serious about this and you will come to know about the truth. Anu replied. Oh dear this is really sad to see but then why are you not speaking up the same with your mother in law as she can might open up with you can tell you what is the exact problem and might then you both can remove some solutions about the same. All the best dear. Anaida replied. Oh dear what is going on and why are you not informing to your parents about the same as they can surely help you in this matter and can guide you properly that what can be done in this matter as well,please according to me you should speak to your parents right away. Anita replied. Hello dear this is really sad to see that you are facing so many difficulties but then this is life and i think you should accept the fact and start preparing for yourself and start directing to yourself to be strong
enough to handle all the problems. Raj replied. discuss this issue detailly with your husband and about your future. definately he will agree with u