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Joint Family:Agonies never end...
2010-08-06
Name: Rewa



HI ! We r married for 12 years now. between us, we shared a happy relationship. my mother in law and brother in law have poisoned our relations to such an extent that a loving and caring husband until now, who atleast said that he understood me, has become too violent. now we stay in a differnt town but my mother in law calls him up during his office hours. earlier he used to tell me what she spoke, but suddenly he has started abusing me of all wrongs. when i ask what is wrong,he says i m wrong. he has started to yell and thrash me ! this transformation has hurt me deeply.... i dont even know what is going on.... when i ask why he is hitting me, he says that i deserve it... his language is getting abusive too... i dont know what to do... i thought of separating, but i love this man so much that i don' t want to take extreme steps. also, i don' t want our child to suffer because of hasty action. i don' t want to trouble my parents too. when wil it all end...God knows ! right now, i m lost and nowhere........
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