Hi !
I am 27wks pregnant. I am all alone with my husband here in US, and its like 7th month going to start next month.

I had a miscarriage a year before and this time also i dont feel good as per the health wise, i dont enough rest just because my husband doesnt like that and thats why i am so confused whether to go back to my mom's place for the delievery as i might face several problems during having a baby .

My MIL may cum in the march (before or after the baby's birth ), as she is a teacher in the school and cannot come here before that. She is not allowing my mom to over if she is not sure about her plans.
What shall i so now... i am so confused ...we are here with the plans of getting citizenship in 3years and that why i cannot go back but the thing is i dont want to stay here more than another year or few months. I dont want to have citizenship.
No one understands me ....i need a quick suggestion on this as i may not be allowed to fly after 7th month.

Please guide me...My parents cannot take action as the matter may go worst if they call me on their own ..my in-laws wants me to be here and have citizenship with my husband..but i am alone and needs to be taken care of ..at this time..


Hope to hear somthing gud..
Thanks for reading my msg. darsh replied. relax dear,
i understand yr prob completely as this is the time when u need yr hubbys max love & affection ..but remember now u hv think abt yr baby as well..if u keep on thinking negative all the time & be unhappy it will affect yr baby as well.as i really bel that whatever u do & u r will affect yr baby so try & be happy..read gud things ..read baby books..meditate..it will really help yr baby...trust me as i used to do all that..& i hv been blessed by a wonderful smiling baby boy.
all the best...take care..be happy. friend replied. Hi dear,
I understand your problem, you should try to take rest but sometimes things are not in our hand.

I mean try that your husband assist you in your household, actually backhome its easy, we have parents and relatives and can get maid for help.

Decision to back is also very tough, if you have stayed for such a long, just wait for a while till you get Citizenship, so that it doesn't spoil your relationship with your husband. Getting Citizenship would not force you to stay in US, you can then go back to home country, who knows it might be good for your kids.
So try your best not to take tension, beleive me I have two kids and I started my maternity leave with the date of delivery, so don't worry, don't take any tension, stay here, get citizenship for your child an din the mean time may be you would also get it.

Everything would be fine. BTW where do you stay in US.

Take care

Friend sara replied. relax..i used to do a lot of house work + work in office for 9 hrs till the 9th month. Its less likely that miscarriage might occur at this stage of pregnancy.
Take care while bending etc. Try to sleep on the left side..so that there is max supply of blood to the fetus.
relationship with husband and in-laws will become much better after the little on is born.