hi all,
I have a son of 10 months and i am a working mother.now since he started recognizing everything,whenever i am leaving home ,he doesn't like that.he will start crying and will do all sort of things like that.i am also feeling very bad that time.
My MIL is there at home to take care of him ,but i thought he is not taking proper care of my child.
what to do,plz help.i am in such a dilemma that i could not work properly at office.even i thought of resigning.
anybody plz suggest anything.
D Fernandes replied. Hi,
before leaving for office dont cuddle your kid too much and say that you are going more than once. they tend to start crying. tell the baby carer to keep the baby involed with his toys or some activity.
and lastly if this too doesnt work and as you have decided to resign , i would say thats the best option as babies at this stage do require their parents attention. once hes big enough and understanding then you can restart again. a mother can take better care of their kids than another. Farah replied. I would say it all depends on you! how well you organize yourself and manage your tasks.
Its challenging but you need to find the fine balance in keeping all in harmony. I have a 4 month old.. I am working too, managing the house, servants, husband, socialising and travelling too! my main focus is ofcourse my baby ..e'thing else including work has taken a back seat but they haven't completely dissapeared! don't sacrifice so much that you can't be in peace with your self.. We, women can do a lot!
cheers!
Farah shital replied. Hi,
I would say that you should see the priorities.i can understand your situation but if it is really necessary for you to work than you have no choice but if u can stay home with him (resigned job)i would say this one is the better option. as kids will need parents until they don't do everything by themselves. once they will start doing things by themselves, they don't need us. you can start working after sometime once he start school. i am also a mother of twin boys. they are 3 months old and i am resigning my job for them and will enjoy motherhood for sometime with them.