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Baby Sitters and Creches:Baby´ s Day Out Chreche - Durba
2008-03-27
Name: Rashmi



Hi Durba,

I would like to talk to you on this matter.Because you would have come to the Baby' s Day Out chreche after seeing my earlier post on this chreche some years/months back.I was the one who used to vouch for this chreche and have recommended to many people.I myself had kept my son their for last 3 years.The respect and trust that I had for them was immense.I also used to consider her like my own mother.But unfortunately everything is shattered now.The trust word has been left with no meaning now.I am talking this as a mother who has been hurt deeply at seeing her only son being hit and going through emotional shock at such a small age.

My kid is so scared to even talk about this chreche.I just pray that what has happened with my kid and the mental trauma that my kid has gone through no other kid goes through the same.

This entire incident of the chreche people hitting my child was completely denied by the owners telling that kids make up story and imagine.Imagination doesn' t show fearness in the kids eyes and his talks or his reluctentness to go to that chreche.

Even to this day shivers run down my spine in anger and frustration that i was not able to protect my baby when he was going through all this.
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2008-04-18
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Anonymous Name: anjali
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Hi rashmi,
i was really shocked after reading ur article.I think that u need to clarify all the facts with patti as my son is also going to same creche and in all these yrs we never had a problem like this from the creche side.it would have happened at times when my son would have been scolded for being naughty or doing something wrong but I feel that its good to scold children when they do wrong at that point itself else when we take them out and they do the same act there outside and when people make fun of them (like in schools )kids would have a negative effect of the same and latter they may refuse to go out in public...I know so many parents whose kids are here and they are pretty happy ...infact i know those kids who are over here since begining when this creche got started and now they so use to of their dear paati that if their patti is busy with other kids they do some act to gather auntie' s attention.aunty love all the kids like her own grand children.and this i can say seeing my kid .Infact u see other day care centers near by ,the way they treat the kids .they make them sleep on dirty stinking beds,maids are dirty...infact few of the owners stay in their own house and creche is far away .Here Patti stays with the kid keep an eye whts going on ...cleanliness is v much seen .The biggestt thing is that when our kids get up in morning they go to their Patti' s house with a smile ...I had seen the confidence ,smartness that has been build up in my son.....I am not a promoter of this creche but I would like to share my feeling for the creche n Patti .........
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2008-04-19
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Anonymous Name: Rashmi
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Hi Anjali,

My kid was the second kid in the chreche when the chreche started 3 years back.

I was cheated, with a sugar coated smile while dropping the child there. I was betrayed when i had to hear from my son that the same lady whom he used to call Paatti(Grandma) beat him on his head and shoulders for passing motion due to a bad stomach. I was shocked when the creche owner covered up the whole incident.

Let me recap. The day the incident happened, my husband picked up the child in the evening, the creche owner was about to complain to him like, ´ you know what your child did today?´ When my husband insisted on knowing, she said it is between my child and ´ Patti´ . But my husband noticed the terrified look in some of the maids face. Later when my husband asked my child, he narrated what happened.

We pulled out our child the next day itself, but did not speak with her, knowing very well how vehemently she will deny it. 10 days after the incident, she called up my husband and told, ´ sorry for whatever has happened to you and your child, stop hurting me´ Now I read this as ´ stop hurting my business´ . As the call came after I started posting the incident in this site. Now, if she is innocent, why did she apologise and let her son speak to my husband to ´ advise´ my husband that ´ kids some times lie´ ?

I as a parent do not want any child to go through what my son has gone through. It hurts all the more when it is from some one on whom we used to have lots of trust and respect. This lady betrayed our trust and respect. This lady hurt my child, she needs to own up and be sorry for that. And being sorry is bye a formal call to say sorry, but advising her people to stay away from the threats in this forum.
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