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Miscarriage and Child Loss:i lost my child
2004-09-20
Name: rekha



hi guys
i am very new to this site and i read about few of ur stories about miscarriage as well as child loss.we do not know sometimes why god does that to us.there is no answer for many things in our lives.my story is that i lost my 6 month old son for biliary atresia which is the most rarest of disease and could be found one in 20,000 children.now do u have answer why god chose my child?.he was born in germany and he had kasai operation and later he needed liver transplant as well.but he wasnt fit to undergo the same.but he was the sweetest child and he always smiled.everyone around me remembers him for his smile.the same smile has kept me alive.i try to remember only his smile but not his sufferings.my husband is always by my side and very comforting.now god has given me another oppurtunity to become mother.I am 15 weeks pregnant five months after my son left me.god makes u cry but again he is the one who is gonna make u smile.so keep faith in god.god makes everything alright.
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2004-09-22
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Anonymous Name: wannabparents
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hi rekha, Thanks for ur reply to my message. I am very much touched.
I can understnad ur situation right now. I am very sorry for whatever u've gone thru'. My friend's mom had said that whenever miscarriage happens that means, it is not the time the baby is supposed to come, it is formed by mistake. When we get pregnant again and a healthy child is born again that is its real time. In your case also i feel ur son is going to be born again healthy. His right time is now. Hope u understand what I mean. My heartiest wishes for ur pregnancy and have a healthy and happy nine months. My prayers r always with u and ur baby.
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