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2008-01-22

Name: Jesintha I was a very good classical dancer & use to pedal my cycle to school atleast 6km' s a day al throughout my highschool & college.Now
Iam Married since 4yrs with a happy family with 2 kids and a understanding & well educated husband. Even today occassionally my husband tells me that i wasn' t a virgin when we were married.I dont really understand what he is trying to tell me.But the fact is that I never had sex before marriage and On our first night i had terrible pain but i never had any bleeding.According to myhusband virginity is proved only when the female bleeds I dont know what to say??? what do i do? please advice

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I was a very good classical dancer & use to pedal my cycle to school atleast 6km' s a day al throughout my highschool & college.Now
Iam Married since 4yrs with a happy family with 2 kids and a understanding & well educated husband. Even today occassionally my husband tells me that i wasn' t a virgin when we were married.I dont really understand what he is trying to tell me.But the fact is that I never had sex before marriage and On our first night i had terrible pain but i never had any bleeding.According to myhusband virginity is proved only when the female bleeds I dont know what to say??? what do i do? please advice sweety replied. if your husband can handle it...as Smrity has said...an athletic person ranging from running to dancing and even the other stuff like mastrubation and tampons will break the hymen. The only indication of your virginity is wheather or not you have had sexual intercourse with your partner...on a side note...on my ob/gyn rotation in med school my chief had once told me that even the speculum used in a pelvic exam for paps can break the hymen. Its uncommon for virgin girls to get an exam but in th US many do for reasons such as yeast infections or early detection of cervical cancer. If he can' t digest that then take him on your next appointment and have him here from the source itself.
Yes verne, evolution gone backwards... Smrity replied. If you haven' t had sex then you' re a virgin. In our modern world there are plenty of reasons for not having a hymen. Vigorous athletics, horseriding, tampons and masturbation are just a few of the most common.

Sometimes the hymen is thin and easily broken without any of the above reasons. Not bleeding is possible anyway if a hymen isn' t tough.

Jesintha, please give the above detail to your husband and if he still don' t understand...take him to a doc who can explain him better and if he still fails to understand...you better ignore what he says and be happy :)
verne replied. him to stop living in the stone - age. and ask him to prove his virginity or you shall believe that he slept with a million women before marriage and suffers from Sexually transmitted diseases!
Honestly, how do you women manage to marry such men? its like darwin' s theory going backwards.

2008-01-23

Name: sweety
Subject:

heres soem advise from a real doctor...

if your husband can handle it...as Smrity has said...an athletic person ranging from running to dancing and even the other stuff like mastrubation and tampons will break the hymen. The only indication of your virginity is wheather or not you have had sexual intercourse with your partner...on a side note...on my ob/gyn rotation in med school my chief had once told me that even the speculum used in a pelvic exam for paps can break the hymen. Its uncommon for virgin girls to get an exam but in th US many do for reasons such as yeast infections or early detection of cervical cancer. If he can' t digest that then take him on your next appointment and have him here from the source itself.
Yes verne, evolution gone backwards...

2008-01-25

Name: verne
Subject:

great

i am hoping to be in a residency soon enough.
I am glad to see you dishing out professional advice to people who deserve it. You will see in the skin and hair boards, some quacks, and self proclaimed naturalists giving absurd and maniacal cures, and who knows what damage they do to people who trully need professional advice.
I wish you luck in this place. And i wish you truly help some people out here.
I refrain from giving our prescriptions anymore, i used to do it anymore, dont find it ethical anymore.

2008-01-25

Name: sweety
Subject:

Hey verne

Nice to meet you too...thats kind of cool to see people giving out advice and such. Well good luck with the last rounds of rotations and hopefully you land a fun residency. BTW residency is more fun than med school...lol!

2008-01-24

Name: verne
Subject:

hey sweety

nope, u didnt say anything wrong, pleasure to meet another doc on board. People dont take us seriously though. I will be a resident in 6 months.

2008-01-24

Name: sweety
Subject:

getting there...

I am actually a resident now. So getting there. WHy? did I say something worng? If so please correct me...just gave her what I knew from other patient experiences.

2008-01-23

Name: verne
Subject:

are

you a doctor for real?

2008-01-22

Name: Smrity
Subject:

Don´ t bother much

If you haven' t had sex then you' re a virgin. In our modern world there are plenty of reasons for not having a hymen. Vigorous athletics, horseriding, tampons and masturbation are just a few of the most common.

Sometimes the hymen is thin and easily broken without any of the above reasons. Not bleeding is possible anyway if a hymen isn' t tough.

Jesintha, please give the above detail to your husband and if he still don' t understand...take him to a doc who can explain him better and if he still fails to understand...you better ignore what he says and be happy :)

2008-01-22

Name: verne
Subject:

tell

him to stop living in the stone - age. and ask him to prove his virginity or you shall believe that he slept with a million women before marriage and suffers from Sexually transmitted diseases!
Honestly, how do you women manage to marry such men? its like darwin' s theory going backwards.

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