Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

hello im needing help with confidence i am a pretty girl with great features i have gorgeous eyes but everytime i go to parties i feel shy when i see some hot looking guy i get shy and i have nothing to conversate with i really need help to beeing the center of attention i am a bit sanwali in complexion not wheatish but have a nice skin tone when ever i group with other pakis like me i feel that i am darker than them and the least of importance in the entire room. What should i do to overcome this i want to be likeable approchable and as well need nicER skin please help me get a bit fair too. neha replied. hey sharmila dear ..wow man u 've kool features.u shy???and feel complex for ur self??yyyy dearr???u don't know what u 've such a pretty eyes and beutiful features oh my GOD.i wish i could get gorgious eyes like urs.Ohhh...forst of all love ur self darling ..and don't give attention to others .make ur self beautiful by giving attention to ur self.don't look at others and for get who 's more fairer than u .and thanxful to GOd.i 've a cousin yaar i 've also told this to sia in this board.she 's also sanwli in comlextion and my best freind as well.u know when i was in 10th i really became jealous of them,that y they r so attractive in sanwala complextion.lol.ahhh that was so bad period.any ways, make ur attractive and for get about fair complextion .u can stirgt ur hair .can blow dry them and stright them with stighting iron.it 'll so attractive.as u asked about fairer complextion.
1.drink atlesat 8-10 glass water daily.u 'll b so beautiful and fair.
2.drink mint juice daily.its really so wow.
3.apply lemon juice for an hour daily.
and buy vitamin C whitening faical cleansing cream.for refining,cleanse and refresh.its for all skin types.
and u can also use free MAn scrub twice in a month.also use FRee man totally juicy masque.and when ever 've plan for party u can bleach ur face arms and feet.wax them as well.and i 've 7 tips for u .follow them .Wear Sunscreen lotion. We can never emphasize too much on the importance of wearing sunscreen lotion. Direct sunlight will slowly cause aging, damaged cells and more skin problems. The best proof is your unexposed skin which is smoother and healthier than your hand or other exposed area of your body. Go to Protecting your skin from the sun for more tips and explanation.

iii) Eating Right. \";You are what you eat\";. This phrase best explains the importance of eating right. To have a healthy skin, eat plenty of seed food i.e. fruits that contain seeds, vegetables - organic vegetables are better as it contains additional nutrients.

=>Below is other healthy food to consume for a better complexion:-

a) Soya bean. This is a traditional beauty tips for some Asian countries. Drink at least one cup of soya bean per day. It has proven to be a highly nutritious drink for many ladies especially pregnant women who want their babies faired skin.

iv) Cut off smoking and drinking. Yes, it might sound a little difficult but try to reduce them as much as possible. Smoking tends to destroy the Vitamin C in your body, damage the elastic tissues that keeps the skin tight thus forming fine lines around your lip area, not to mention that it discolors your teeth. Drinking liquor on the other hand tends to expand your blood vessels causing red spots and itchiness on your skin.

v) Exercise more. Your skin needs to breathe as well. Just a little exercise, jogging or walking will be sufficient to increase the blood circulation in your body thus bring enough oxygen and nutrients to your face and the rest of your body.

vi) Reduce stress. Stress is extremely bad for your skin and body. It indirectly creates instability in your hormonal system which in turn leads to more skin problems like breakouts and acne.

vii) Get enough sleep. Hey, this is easy enough. If you want a healthy and fresh look, get your full 6 to 8 hours of sleep everyday. It will essentially reduce your puffy eyes and tired look as well as the constant yawning. You could perhaps drink a glass of warm milk or tea and eat an early dinner to help you sleep easily. take care of ur self.
love
neha soha replied. dear SHARMILA

FIRST of all fair skin is not the only quality for looking nice and gorgeious.people having sanwali complexion also looks attractive.it is necessary to have a clear skin and not the fair skin.
don,t you see lots of miss worlds are dark in complexion .i accept that in asian countries everybody likes and wants a fair skin tone but,it is also true that girls having a little darker tone are also attractive because of their excellent features.

look around yourself famous film star and miss world priyanka chopra is not having a fair complexion.this is just your thinking that people having fair skin looks beautiful and the rest of the peoples are not as much good as others are.

you know your self that you have gorgeious features then why are you depressed.try to work out your best on your features for example;

if your eyes are beautiful then learn and try make your eyes prominent while doing make up.if your lips are beautiful work on them at the most.

express your features.

and the most important thing for increasing your confidence stand infront of the mirror and look into your eyes and talk with your self in a liking manner for 15 minutes daily .you will gain confidence.

stop looking around too much .dont be impressed by others .just concentrate on yourself.if you are pretty you must thank to god and one more thing just remember you are like other girls talk in the parties in a louder but,polite voice.express your views ,dont hesitate and if you are feeling hesitation stop looking around that who is watching you.just speak .


in the last i must say that the nervous people are more noticible than the confident peoples.

good luck soha replied. dear SHARMILA

FIRST of all fair skin is not the only quality for looking nice and gorgeious.people having sanwali complexion also looks attractive.it is necessary to have a clear skin and not the fair skin.
don,t you see lots of miss worlds are dark in complexion .i accept that in asian countries everybody likes and wants a fair skin tone but,it is also true that girls having a little darker tone are also attractive because of their excellent features.

look around yourself famous film star and miss world priyanka chopra is not having a fair complexion.this is just your thinking that people having fair skin looks beautiful and the rest of the peoples are not as much good as others are.

you know your self that you have gorgeious features then why are you depressed.try to work out your best on your features for example;

if your eyes are beautiful then learn and try make your eyes prominent while doing make up.if your lips are beautiful work on them at the most.

express your features.

and the most important thing for increasing your confidence stand infront of the mirror and look into your eyes and talk with your self in a liking manner for 15 minutes daily .you will gain confidence.

stop looking around too much .dont be impressed by others .just concentrate on yourself.if you are pretty you must thank to god and one more thing just remember you are like other girls talk in the parties in a louder but,polite voice.express your views ,dont hesitate and if you are feeling hesitation stop looking around that who is watching you.just speak .


in the last i must say that the nervous people are more noticible than the confident peoples.

good luck