hi girls,
hust to tell u all that my hubby has got his transfer to Pune. we stay in bombay with my inlaws. I m feeling very low and depressed as i dont feel like staying without him during this first pregnancy period of mine. Although he shall be going to Pune, he would try to come on weekends to bombay to be with me but i want to stay with him every night. He shall not be taking me with him coz he wouldnt be able to take care of my as my mother in law...Now i shall be able to go to him only when my baby is nearly 3 months old...and thats going to be another 6-7 months..O GOD ! THIS IS GONNA BE TOUCH AND DIFFICULT..PLS ENCOURAGE AND MOTIVATE ME. I M TOTALLY DEPRESSES AND SAD. jyoti replied. Hi dipi, just stay cool and calm... Pune is not a far place yaar and I know that any point of time your hubby will be with you since he might be feeling this same.... husbands also find it there first duty to take care of there wifes and in such cases they feel very difficult...they can not express properly but still they want to take care of us... Soooooo be a sweet lady and think by your hubby's point of view... Seeing you unhappy he cannot do the things properly...

Soo just cheer up....and remember the more he will be apart the more you and he will get closer...Thats the secret of love....

take care and be happy
jyoti Deepika replied. Hi Dipi.It sure looks like you are upset.and i agree with you,i guess at this time a woman wants to be with her husband the most,as being with him makes all the difference.
i went through the same thing too when i was carrying the first time,i had to go to my stay with my mom for three months and was .now we are on with our second child and right now live in muscat,oman.there is so much pressure on me from friends and family to go to india for the baby but i just dont feel like doing so even knowing that i am going to have a c-sec yet again,and knowing well that may be it will be difficult.
dipi this is your first time so may be there may be times when you may feel lost and wish for some help,so may be you should consider all these issues,plus the good thing is your husband will be with you every weekend,pune is so close to mumbai,just think of all those girls who have to go to far off places and cannot be together even at the time of birth.
well look who is talking.i am in a fix too.i dont know what to do whether to saty here all alone or go home.lets hope we all will make the best decisions possible.all the best to you and dont worry too much ,things will work out.
love
deepika