how is abhisekh???hope ur parents have reached home safely ..being wth mum is grt isnt it ..even my mum is leaving on 1st ..though confident can manage all but that little bit of uneasiness ..is cropping in ... as chinu hasnt slept last 2 days and is getting cranky the moment he is put on his bed ... als i am nt an early riser so all morng wrk ws done by her ..now it will fall on me... what to do rather have to do...hubby though of not grrrt help but yes he can manage chinu cahnge diapers,soothe him and pacify him ..
reema replied. true
even when i ws at my inlaws place chinu used to scream and shout whne his father used to hold him ...but after we came to our own house he ws like ok ..being in his arm ...now he exelently calms him ..helps him to sleep .. will help in feeding also as i sometime express out milk and keep it in bottle due to engorgement
hope all goes in smoothly after my mum also leaves Sabitha Jayashankar replied. Abhishek is a little better after taking zantac.My parents reached their home yesterday night.I think their journey was ok.
Past two days Abhi was ok.He atleast took some one hour naps.I used to give him a thorough oil massage at around 9.30 and he slept for an hour.Since its vacation time my elder one wakes only around 10.So i have to give him breakfast after that.Its difficult with a baby and managing alone.Also seeing that my elder one is also cared for.He has least interest food.If u dont feed him by hand he is not going to eat.
Today i tried a bit of cooking also.Abhi was awake.Good i managed most with the pressure cooker.It is difficult.Now its lunch time.Hope Abhi allows us to eat.I have to eat and feed my elkder one which goes on for around an hour.
Its a good idea to get ur husband to manage ur young one.Here also my hubby didnt help much as my parents were around.Now Abhi wont stay with him.He starts crying.I think pretty soon he will get used to my hubby.
Life will go on.dont worry.things will be fine.