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I am married for the past 2 years.Always me and my husband have had problems only because of my in laws.She doesn't want me to have a child(naver said it in words).She is a homeopathy doctor and often give me sometablets in the begining telling it is for my good.(Then i had my periods regularly in 28 days and we didn't have any s** relationship).I ate it hesitantly because if i disagree my husband wud fight wih me.Then later i found my periods going irregular after each month of eating the tablets. when i was undergoing treatment i was staying with my parents for a week and I did not go and visit my inlaws(Doctor asked me to stay in rest mostly with legs raised position.I didn't go anywhere else also).Before me going to my parent's place my mother and father went in person and asked permission from my inlaws.Despite of all these one day my mother in law called my father's mobile and said \";here after don't send your daughter.Have her with you itself\";.Immediately my hubby also stopped calling me(or attending my calls).Then 5 days later when all my medicaions were completed my mother called my hubby and spoke with him(to wish for his B'day).He said he really miss me very much and he came to our house and he took me to his(IL's) house.Then the same evening my hubby left for bangalore and i stayed with my in laws for a week and then returned to bangalore.My hubby is a puppet in my MIL's hands.Since he came and took me from my house avoiding my MIL's words,She is angry with me.She wants her son to speak with her for 1 hour daily.After speaking to them almost everyday my hubby is shouting at me for no reason.And she always want to know my periods date and everything.Nowadays i am not telling but my hubby is teling her.She calculates my ovulating days and stirs up a good fight.Usually he fights for no reason at all and will go to the guest bedroom.I have tried to keep him smooth atleast for my ovulation days.But that doesn't work.Day before Yesterday (One of my ovulation days) my mother in law called him at night 10.00 clock and after she spoke he came to me and said that i was overhearing him.I didn't mean to overhear or anything.But i was simply sitting in the nearby chair and happened to hear all they spoke.I didn't even comment on that i just told i didn't overhear atall.But he started scolding me.Suddenly he started beating me like he is a mad.I got several bruises and cuts all over my body.I wanted to call my parents.He immediately started holding my legs and told that he could not afford living without me.So i didn't tell my parents.He loves me.But he is a puppet.i feel insecure.My hubby would do any harm to me if his mother asks him to do so.My parents are ready to support me if i go home until i get a job both financially and mentally.Even i love my husband so much.What should i do?Should i tell my paernts of what happened and go my way?I don't have a child and my MIL is playing so many tricks in this.She doesn't want me to have a child so that her son's money and love will be only for her.I am in a great confusion regarding what to do.Still i have pain all over my body.I am worried please tell me if i should stay or go to my parent's place. foram replied. hey dear!

i feel sad for u, but if ur husband is a mamma's boy he is never going to change.....NEVER! and if ur mil is so manupalative , she will make ur life worse......tell ur parents....they are good if they understand and support u....what are u waiting for !

secondly, give chance to ur hubby once...and ask him to leave his mother and setup a new home....but if he dosenot have that guts.....best is to leave him.

No point in wasting ur life on a person who can beat u .....