Hi guys,

Sorry for the late response to your posts...anyways....
Komal- Re development sab ne to apne ideas de hi diye hain...I have not been reading to Rishu as I used to feel funny thinking usko kya samajh mein ayega...but now I think I should start...books kya Barnes & N type shops mein milta hain? What I do is talk to Rishu pretty much all day long which of course leaves me with no energy..actually he loves to talk too and responds in the same tone as mine which is nice...I make funny noises and hold him and ghar ki sair karwati rehti hun. When we go out, he doesnt sleep so I keep chatting with him then too and he loves it ...in fact he is so badmaash that the moment I stop talking to take a breath he keeps talking for a few mins and if I dont respond he starts whining...bahut shaitan hain...
I also try and pull his hands gently and try to make him sit up..very gently though as their joints are still not great...but he loves sitting as he can see more of this duniya...massage time is his and my favorite time..he just loves it...I guess nanga time is what he looks fwd too....since the last few days he has started pushing back and tries to move on his own...like if I put his on the bobby he will put pressure on the bed with his legs and keep going back...when his head falls over the bobby and he is stuck he screams!! He also pushes back my breast with both his hands if he doesnt want to feed. Of course his fav past time is eating his hands!!! He hates tummy time too but if I talk to him he goes on for some time...he made a turn 2 days back and now suddenly there is no urge..he gets frust totally...also give him rattles and a small soft toy so that he learns to feel these things...he took the longest time to hold these things..now he manages to push the soft toy above his head and then wants it but doesnt know how to so again starts screaming...bas bete ke khidmat mein hi saara din nikal jaata hain. I sing to him a lot. Puneet teases me and says yeh to 'Lord Rishabh' hain bhai, iske liye to private concerts hote hain...I am bad with nursery rymes though so I just convert our hindi film songs to baby lang songs :) I know I should learn some rhymes....hee hee...ab mein MA ban gayi hun na...Rishu always wants attention..if I leave him in the stroller like you and Sush do he will kill me...he complains by doing ulti as he knows Mummy gets worried...the moment I try and chipko with Puneet he either cries or does ulti so didi (my sis in India) calls him our natural birth control :)
Sush- Just saw your snaps...and I have to say the Tia is a copy of Tapash! She seems to be such a poser like already conscious of her looks and all..and I love her hairband...the blue sweater with the blue overall even Rishu has...also was surprised to see your wearing shaaka pola...woh to bas shaadi ke kucch dino tak hi pehante hain na...and yes her nose is exactly like Rishu's too..have been trying to take his dimple waala smile but he just doesnt oblige yaar...Tia seems to be a nice and patient kid :)Love the twinkle in her eyes...hey you grew up around army ppeople...they r sooooooo good looking na..my best friend is married to a navy waala guy and we all drool on him...he is cho chweet...
Vani- kya chal raha hain life mein...lucky you that yr mom will be with yu at your house..how is Shyam doing...did he visit you again..How is Rishi doing. Please post his snaps yaar..bahut din ho gaye na...
Raj- Just saw Sid's photos...I have fallen in love with him!! I love his big eyes, lips and ears. He is SO CUTE! He does look mischievious..thinking of the next prank to
play on poor mummy na...beta be a good boy kal ok during your shots...
Chaya-just saw Vaishi's snaps..she is surely your replica :) Is she sleeping thru the nite? How many weeks is she now...
PK- Just wanted to add that the black area on the bum are mongolian spots which are very typical pf Asian and African babies..they disappear in a couple of years...please surely clean her neck area under the folds as it becomes very dirty there...with Rishu and his ulti prob that is what I do half the time...
Anyway, gotta go now Rishu is up...
Had started writing this yesterday but finsihed today hence so long..hope I havent BORED you guys with my boring stuff...
Reena
komal replied. Hi Reena ,
shall reply to your post later..actually i typed out a long reply aur megha ke chakkar mein pata nahin kaha ud gaya.....monday ko more then
Bye
love
komal Vani replied. Wow, what an update. I did read it this afternoon and thought shud reply in detail since didn't have much time then. Like you, even I feel funny reading to him, so I only talk and sing to him. I am no good in rhymes nor in slokas so keep getting scoldings from mom everyday. You won't believe, I myself am learning short stories from Ramayana and Mahabharata from mom so that I can tell them to Rishi later. I show him pictures from books, and he loves to sit on my lap in the rocking chair and watch TV.

He drools a lot and licks his sheets, shirt and when i carry my shoulders!!!

I liked the natural FP joke :-) Shyam is coming only tomorrow and will be here for a week so will know about how Rishi reacts when we talk. But I have a choice to give him to my mom and have some time alone ;-)

Ok you take care and lots of love to the lil brat.

Love,
Vani sush replied. Hey Reena
-comrade in arms !!!..
your email's are never boring..just a reflection of r life 'n'times...
thanks about the comments on Tia..you r right she is a real poser..infact many times when we have tried to capture her in action she freezes & gives that \";mein kya kar rahi hu?\";expression (abhi se hi guilty look)!!!
.about the shaka pola thing..you see in Nov when I stopped going to work I put them on since I was in this big housewifey thing after years!!!..then remember I got the carpel tunnel syndrome???..well that swelled my hands & wrists & couldn't take them off....just 2 weeks back I could finally remove them !!..one of my shakas actually \";bere ge chelo\";(you know what I mean no..?)..
neways Tia is becomming such a \";
shaitaner hadi\";..& totally \";paji\";..she too gives this dukhi dukhi expression when I & Tapash try to become cozy but I guess she is right now Tapash 's latest squeeze & I have been replaced totally !!!..here it is a case of being a \";maid of manhattan\"; ! rather than need for birth control !!!..oh btw when I try to sing to Tia..she screams !!!..I have an awful voice !!!..neways do you know lyrics of hindi filmi lullabies..I was actually looking out for \";nanhi kali sone chali hawa dhere aana\";'s wordings..
do let me know if you have them..
love
sush