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Joint Family:my problem
2006-09-20
Name: kb



hey,
My BIL was after me for quite some time ..actually may be from the time I got married to his chota baai.He has forever tried to finger me or stare at me whenever he is around.He keeps making blank calls to me when he knows that I would pick up the phone at home & all he would do was breath right next to the phone as if he has asthma or something.I figured out it was him one time when he coughed Yesterday he finally tried to actually force himself on me at our home when noone was there.Well, like I had planned to, all I did was give him a nice punch at his 'spot' & he could just not bear the pain.Now I am worried what he might do next..
I was never worried about him until this incident.Now I am really worried what that joker is going to do next to spoil my peace.My husband is good for nothing & so is his wife..I even doubt that she knows that her husband is after me.& I do not think I can ever badmouth about his big brother to my husband because he is almost like his godfather or god.
What do you think that I should do now.
I have a best friend to whom I update everything ,she says that I should tell my husband everything?..I am lookign for a job & everyone else in the family (except me & my old MIL) go to work..& this buggers' factory is right next to home .so he is always home for something or the other.he even comes home for lunch.I am little bit worried.

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2006-09-21
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Anonymous Name: Bhavana
Subject:  Hi KB



I am 100% with Ashley on this.Whether your husband likes it or not you must tell him about this disgusting man.If doesn't listen to you tell your mil but do it before he tells people that you are the one who is lying or whatever kind of insane things he may do or tell.
I don't want to scare you but I want you to take action on this asap.
All the best and do fill us in on what is happening with you.You take care.
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2006-09-20
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Anonymous Name: Ashley
Subject:  try this



Hi KB you must talk to your husband no matter he listans or not tell him each and every detail what this man intends to do .At any cost do not sucumb to his idiosyncracies.BE VERY VERY FIRM THAT YOU HATE ALL THIS STUFF.if your husband does not understand talk to other people in your family at any cost dont let this issue go and talk immediately before this lecherous man does something further.All the best do write if you need help
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